"You are loved" (?)

Emotional ramblings. Something written out of spontaneity to clear off my mind and heart.

Do not believe for a second, if someone tells you "you are loved". 

To be loved is something very few people deserve and even fewer who know how to hold on to that feeling. And no matter how hard you try, you always end up hurting the ones you care about regardless of your intentions. And when that happens, do not believe for a second that they'll understand your reasons. The phrase "out of love" is a lame excuse and certainly delusional and even harder to make someone believe that. 

So, do not, for even a second, believe if someone tells you "you are loved". 

'Tis a ruthless world we live in and we're all the sum of our selfishness. 

Reviews

[VALORMORE DE PLUME]

Thank you for sharing your heart, whether recent or of the past. I feel your resentment and pain. We all experience devastating emotional reversals.....and we are able to relate..... This too shall pass.

Fragile
From the
Word Garden
Of
Valormore

Our dearest treasures come in varied form.
Like inclinations of our heart, that warm.
With greatest attentiveness they are worn.
Not often do they come, within a swarm.
~*~
Precious keepsakes often easily break.
Like loss of temper does our peace forsake.
Cannot our heart of glass, withstand a shake?
Deceits cause ripples, on that placid lake.
~*~
Empires crumble under moral decay.
Barbaric scruples then come in, to play.
Angry reactions cannot see the way.
Without true wisdom, we have lost our way.
~*~
So when we build our house of many cards.
We dread the dark tempest, out in our yards.
We might recall the wisdom of the bards,
when all our great treasures have turned to shards.
~*~
Valormore De Plume
©11302017



BAG OF DARTS
From
The Word garden
Of
Valormore




Broken Words
Breaking Hearts

Tears Slow Down
Time Departs

Take Some Time
Enjoy The Arts

Drop The Baggage
Filled With Darts

[Dr. YumnaKay]

You're right, it does pass but not without leaving scars...
Thank you so much for your words here and for sharing those pieces. Greatly appreciated, sir.

[VALORMORE DE PLUME]

You are most welcome.

[Einstein Noodle]

becoming bitter over hurts ...grieves the soul ... gives power over to someone or something else .. your note is piercing as your ... hmmmmm short story? ... prose? ......... your heart.... pulls me in to feel the pain and discouragement ... reeling to grab hold on something that will "make it better" ... i'm so sorry for your heroine ...heroine she, is says i ;) when our humanity seems so very low ...sometimes i imagine what God, our Creator, must feel ... if things break my heart ... what are God's tears like :(
this is obviously personal ... i am so sorry for whatever it is that has broken your heart ... i hope your journey through the pain brings you to a far better, stronger, wiser place ... don't forget ... pain and suffering are much more impactfull teachers than joy. i am touched by your honesty and the vulnerable heart you must have ... i hope to read more of this "stuff" in the future ..i am all for you Dr. ;)
E.

[Dr. YumnaKay]

I think there should be an option of an essay or something like that instead if just a story or poem. My ramblings don't fit either way :x
It was indeed written in a moment of vulnerability but writing it off helped me in certain ways, especially in deciding that I don't need to surround myself with people, at least for now....but you're right, pain is s great teacher.
Thank you so much for your empathetic words here, dear friend. Truly appreciated.

[Einstein Noodle]

love your stuff my friend...knowing when situations are dragging ourselves into unhealthy places is wise .. and following our "wisdom" is the best thing to do, i think ... i am reminded of the analogy of being able to pull someone up onto the chair we are standing on ...or be pulled off ... this is a case where listening to our heart is probably not such a good idea

[Chris Shaw]

I felt the pain of someone here who has been badly let down in love. So hurt that all trust has gone and the thoughts of being loved again have flown out of the window, as an impossibility. I am more trusting so if I am told "you are loved", I don't question it. I accept it. When trust goes, it can take a long time for it to return, but it can. In time, this intense pain will soften. It happens, I know. Your lines thought provoking and understandable.


Chris

[Dr. YumnaKay]

I suppose you're right. The trust might return but the scars remain...
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts here, Christine. Appreciated.

[An owl on the moon]

Aching in the words... knowing they are too true at times. There is the love, and the silence of love letting go. And yes, too often our lives are lived in that ocean of self. Wishing, wanting the world to be so much more than that. Perhaps it can be, for those few. Perhaps...

[Dr. YumnaKay]

You understand the feeling only too well, Craig... thank you so much for your empathetic words here. As always, appreciated. :)

[An owl on the moon]

May your birthday bring you gifts beyond measure, like seeds in an infinite garden of life. And cake... that's always good too. :)

[YanZeros]

:) Why would you think this way of course you are loved! Count me in as one of the people here that loves you!

[Dr. YumnaKay]

Thank you so much, Ricco! I deeply value your lovely words here. x

[YanZeros]

Whatever is yours will always be yours. Anything that goes away was never yours even before. If you know this, you will be at peace.

[Dr. YumnaKay]

Perhaps you're right... Thank you, once again. Much appreciated. :)