Thought Of The Day -08/15/08

Just recently one of my best friends made probably the biggest mistake of her life so far. She sent a picture of herself NAKED to her ex boyfriend. She knew if she ever did somethng like this everyone would end up mad at her if they found out. Well turns out everyone did find out. I warned her what this would do. I wanred her that the only thing she was doing was hurting herself more than she'd already been hurting before. She didn't listen and now its to late to help her. I feel bad for her, but honestly what am i to do? I can only do so much (which isn't alot now). I know there isn't anythign i can do about it, especially now... but i still feel horrible. I was talking to my boyfriend the other night and he told me that there wasn't anything i could do and not to worry about it. But im not sure if it doesn't make sence to him or what but, i feel horrible becuase the only thing i can really do now is sit here and watch her hurt. I can't go backa nd stop her from sending the pic. I can't make sure nobody remembers. I just can't do that. I wish i could tell her that this is the consequence for her actions, and she has to learn to deal with it, and that i toldher so... but i can't do that because i'd feel ike the worst friend in the world.

 

Should I really feel horrible even though it isn't my fault and their isn't anything i can do?

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