Suffocating

Suffocating

A Poem by Vidya Bacchus
"

Looking for acceptance and not finding it

"

                         Suffocating

I can't breathe, there is no air,
You stand there wearing your condescention,
Like a sickeningly sweet perfume,
Sucking out the air ,
From my traitorous lungs.

 

I  kneel, mute, like a million times before,
Struck dumb in your presence,
A force of habit,
Lessons taught their legacy remains,
My need for your acceptance cuts me off at the knees.

 

I have stood in this graveyard,
Of my dreams,
And chiseled recognition on every tombstone,
That you demanded I put up,
To remember to never forget that I am not worthy .

 

How did I end up here,
Choking on my own bitter existence,
I have courted this conclusion,
With reckless abandon,
My pride flayed by your scathing tones.

 

What has life bourne me,but a mirror held to my face,
Guaging my inadequacies ?
I will be better than this, better than you,
And you will see me and acknowledge,
If only  to yourself, if never to me.

© 2013 Vidya Bacchus


Author's Note

Vidya Bacchus
Battling with my demons

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I kneel, mute, like a million times before,
Struck dumb in your presence,
A force of habit,
Lessons taught their legacy remains,
My need for your acceptance cuts me off at the knees.

We can be addicted to certain kind of sadness. Emotional dependency? Are we born to inherently recognize that we are not all that we could be? If so does that inspire us to become more than what we are for ourselves, or seek validation in others for a facade of qualification?

What has life bourne me,but a mirror held to my face,
Guaging my inadequacies ?
I will be better than this, better than you,
And you will see me and acknowledge,
If only to yourself, if never to me.

It takes an unimaginable amount of strength to escape from the emotional abuse we become dependent upon. But the last line is an acknowledgement of a hurdle that must be understood before the escape can occur. We must recognize that what others internalize may never be expressed. We must use the love that we have for ourselves as a qualifier, and not what we assume to be their disposition.

This write will be great inspiration to those that have experienced the emotions you have so well penned.

Posted 10 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you so much for this remarkable review Xavier.It is deeply appreciated :)



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This is so powerful and so apt a description of the demons that stay long after the source is gone.

Posted 10 Years Ago


Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you KL.Your reviews always mean a lot.Also the added fact that my apostrophe's and commas seem.. read more
Lyn Anderson

10 Years Ago

they are. There are a few errant spaces, but I didn't think it was necessary to point them out.:)
Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

That is truly big of you I know how hard that must have been lol
Wow this is an extraordinary poem Vidya! It was mesmerizing to read and your word choices and imagery only added to the grays and blacks that color this piece. There is no pleasing those who refuse to be pleased but moving past it can feel impossible. I was especially struck by the tombstone stanza:

I have stood in this graveyard,
Of my dreams,
And chiseled recognition on every tombstone,
That you demanded I put up,
To remember to never forget that I am not worthy .

Like Sisyphus this pas de deux feels never ending. It's an incredibly strong write.

Posted 10 Years Ago


Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you Blue your words meant a lot :)
I'm stunned by the power if your poetry!
For me, this was about my past trying to please my impression of who my father needed me to be...
I could see more here as well.
Very string poetry Vidya! I have tears...

Posted 10 Years Ago


Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you so much David :)
I kneel, mute, like a million times before,
Struck dumb in your presence,
A force of habit,
Lessons taught their legacy remains,
My need for your acceptance cuts me off at the knees.

We can be addicted to certain kind of sadness. Emotional dependency? Are we born to inherently recognize that we are not all that we could be? If so does that inspire us to become more than what we are for ourselves, or seek validation in others for a facade of qualification?

What has life bourne me,but a mirror held to my face,
Guaging my inadequacies ?
I will be better than this, better than you,
And you will see me and acknowledge,
If only to yourself, if never to me.

It takes an unimaginable amount of strength to escape from the emotional abuse we become dependent upon. But the last line is an acknowledgement of a hurdle that must be understood before the escape can occur. We must recognize that what others internalize may never be expressed. We must use the love that we have for ourselves as a qualifier, and not what we assume to be their disposition.

This write will be great inspiration to those that have experienced the emotions you have so well penned.

Posted 10 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you so much for this remarkable review Xavier.It is deeply appreciated :)
BEAUTIFUL words used by you, as the face stand. This was a very sad dear..but soon will be alright. loved your writing.

Posted 10 Years Ago


Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you my friend :)
Saddam

10 Years Ago

you're welcome dear.
Absolutely wonderful I can relate as well...how have you been my friend? Hope all is well for you. Sorry I have not been by sooner. Again well done! :)

Posted 10 Years Ago


Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you Raymond and I have been fine as I hope have you .Thanks again always glad to see you .
Beautiful poem..........
I could relate to this.
Amazing!!!
:)

Posted 10 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Hello Pushkar haven't seen you in a while .Thank you always your words are appreciated:)
wonderfully crafted... beautiful words
ahena

Posted 10 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you very much:)
Ahena MK

10 Years Ago

Welcome ...
Ooh graveyard of my dreams, what a chilling thought...the entire write did knock the wind out of my sails, felt like suffocating indeed. Excellent read Vidya!

Posted 10 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you Freida you are always so kind:)
Amazing! You write so beautifully, and express this understanding and trying to accept life and its cruelties perfectly.

Posted 10 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Vidya Bacchus

10 Years Ago

Thank you very much:)

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Added on December 23, 2013
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Tags: tombstone, graveyard, acceptance, scathing

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Vidya Bacchus

point fortin, Trinidad and Tobago



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