Responsibility

Today I want to touch base on “Responsibility”.  So many times in our life we are quick to blame others for our lack of being responsible.  When something goes wrong in the home, majority of the time we start to feud with our love ones.  When something goes wrong on the job, sometimes we point the finger or get uptight with a coworker.  It takes a lot to be the bigger person in an argument. It’s even harder when you are in a disagreement with someone who has pointed out where you lack responsibility.  I applaud both single mothers and fathers who step up to the plate and take on the extra responsibility due to the lack of parenting done by the other parent.  Also the family and friends who help in parenting where they can.

 

So many children today go without having a healthy relationship with both parents due to our lack of responsibility as adults being able to let go of the past and move on into the future.  We need to hold ourselves accountable for our actions regardless of our emotions.  No longer should you make excuses for things of the past.  The past cannot be change, but the future we still control. As parents we need to build stronger relationships with the other parent, despite the situation.  We need to stop talking negative about the other parent in front of the children.  We need to be positive in order for our kids to learn how to be responsible.  To teach them more about who they are and be apart of every moment of their lives.

 

Just imagine as a child how you felt when your parents fought,

when your mom and dad split,

when your dad wasn’t around,

when your mom was too busy,

when grandma had to step up and take care of you,

when dad missed your games,

when mom missed your major accomplishments,

when you pretty much had to raise yourself,

when you didn’t have the things you wanted,

when you got tease because of your upbringing,

etc

 

Well children of today, lack responsible parents as well.  Schedules are too busy for family.  Work pressure is too heavy, you feel you owe more of your time to your job, than your love ones.  Friends seem to be more important than your loved ones. So there’s a new man/woman in your life, your kids still come first.  We need to make sure we are using our time wisely and that our love ones don’t suffer as a result to our actions.  To me nothing in life is a mistake; I believe everything good or bad is a learning experience.  You cannot have a testimony if you haven’t been TESTED!

 

For those experiencing bad breakups, divorce, financial problems, single parenting, loss of a job, etc. know that you are not alone. It’s a big population of our world that is going through similar things.  In order to recover and be successful in getting a fresh start, you must first recognize where you went wrong and make it right.  Don’t allow yourself to go back to your childhood and continue to blame someone else for things that are happening in your life.  We need to learn how to take those situations and be able to grow from them.  Holding on too them and using them as an excuse only holds us back.

 

If you have an unhealthy relationship with anyone I challenge you today to let go of the past and walk into CHANGE in your future. You will never be able to fully tap into all the things GOD has in store for you if you continue to hold someone else responsible for your actions.  We are our worst enemies. We need to be the bigger person in situations and point out where we went wrong and make those situations right.  I know it may seem hard, but CHALLENGE makes us strong.  Seeing is not believing.  We must stand on our Faith and ask God for direction at all times.

Here’s a prayer…..

 

Lord today we come to you for direction.  We come to you Lord for you to guide us through this storm.  Lord teach us how to grow from our past and walk into the things of GOD in our future.  Lord you said you would go before us and make our crooked places straight.  Lord we ask that you teach us how to be more responsible. Lord we ask that you show us the areas in our life in need of change today.  Lord help us grow into the strong men and women of GOD you created us to be.  Lord we pray over our children today and ask that you guide them along their walk. We ask that you protect them from all things that will hinder them along their path.

 

IN JESUS NAME AMEN

 

Be Encouraged

Tennille L. Whittington