Family DinnersA Story by tcd123A story to help people notice the true importance and influence of experiences at the dinner table.I’m just a baby, sitting in my highchair next to Andy and
Daddy and across from Mommy. Daddy’s at the head of the table smiling at me.
Andy picks up one of my cheerios and throws it at Mary. They laugh, so I
giggle. I dream of the day that I will get to eat big kid food like them and
understand why they laugh. Daddy gets home everyday at 7:05. Mommy always takes
off his coat and tie and they hug and kiss each other. Mary and Andy play with
me before dinner and sometimes read to me before bed if I’m lucky. Life is
good. I’m in second grade now. Mary is in eighth and Andy is in
sixth. They hate being in middle school together, but you can tell that they
also love it because they are best friends. I wish I could be their best friend
too. They are much bigger than me and they know it now. They make fun of me for
being the baby and don’t let me play with them anymore, especially when they
have friends over. Mary always complains at dinner about a pimple or a boy.
Andy always copies her to make fun of her. Mommy scolds them a lot, something
about being a bad example for me, but sometimes I don’t really pay attention to
what they’re saying because Daddy tries to distract me. Daddy cuts my big kid
food for me because I can eat it now, and he smiles at me a lot. He takes off
his own coat and tie now, but Mommy still kisses him when she sees him. Life is
still good. Mary is a sophomore in high school now. Andy is in eighth
grade. I’m in fourth. Mary always asks Mommy and Daddy for a new car. Daddy
considers it, Mommy gets mad at him because of it. Andy gets mad at Mary for
bringing it up and ruining family dinner, when really he’s just angry because
he knows there’s even less of a chance for him to get a car. Mary changes the
subject to the dance, the same dance she’s been talking about for the last two
weeks. I tell them about my crush in my art class; he picked me to be his
partner for the finger-painting project so he definitely likes me. Andy tells
me that I’m not allowed to like boys and that if any of them thinks he’s good
enough to be my crush they have another thing coming. I giggle and tell him to
knock it off, but he nudges me and tells me he isn’t kidding. Mary reassures me
he’s right, and I get angry because she’s annoying and it’s unfair because she
has lots of boyfriends. Mommy and Daddy don’t really say as much to each other
anymore. Life is still kinda good, I think. Mary’s a senior now, getting ready to go to college soon.
She isn’t at dinner. She doesn’t really do family dinners anymore because she’s
always “doing a project” with her boyfriend or out with her friends who I’m
really starting not to like. Andy’s here, but he’s eating fast because he has
his basketball game soon and he has to go back to school. He’s starting as a
sophomore, and I am really proud to call him my big brother. He takes a bite of
his garlic bread but then throws it on my plate. He rubs my head and says I
need to put some more meat on my bones and he better see me cheering at his
game. I smile at him and tell him to score for me. He stops in the doorway and
winks at me, and tells me that there’s never a game that he doesn’t. He turns
around and almost runs into Daddy, who is late again. He’s been late a lot
lately. It makes Mommy angry. Daddy quickly sits down and starts to eat. I tell
Mommy and Daddy about the baskets that I scored in gym class today when I
played against all boys. Mommy gives me a quick smile and says she’s proud, but
her smile goes away really fast when she looks back at Daddy eating his food.
Daddy gets up and says thank you for dinner, tells me to grab my coat if I want
to make it to Andy’s game on time, and I jump up to follow him. I look back at
Mommy. She’s cleaning all the dishes by herself. I want to help her, but I
really don’t want to miss Andy’s game. I wave goodbye to her and she gives me
the quick smile again. She doesn’t come to a lot of Andy’s games anymore. Life
is okay. Mary’s gone in college, but it isn’t that different from
before because she was never home to begin with. Andy is a senior now and
talking about how he can’t wait to go. He still eats with us. He looks over at
me and tells me not to miss him too much once he leaves to play for North
Carolina next year. Daddy’s not here, he had another meeting Mommy says. Mommy
looks really stressed and isn’t eating too much. Andy notices me staring at her
and tells me to finish my plate so I can go shoot some hoops with him outside
before he has to leave to go out with his girlfriend. He still cares about me.
I don’t want him to leave. He’s a good big brother. I don’t want to go to high
school without him being there. I miss Mary too even though she didn’t act like
she liked me too much most of the time. Life is weird. I’m a sophomore in high school now. Andy and Mary are both
gone, have been for almost two years now, and I hate it. Their chairs stare at
me like it’s my fault that they’re cold and bare. Daddy looks really old now.
He has to wear his glasses all the time and not just for reading, and his black
hair has gray spots. Mommy looks really tired, and she got really skinny really
fast. Eating with them is uncomfortable. They yell a lot; they don’t really
wait til I go to my room anymore to start arguing. I don’t talk about my day. I
lose my appetite and barely eat dinner at all, considering we go between
Dominos and Chipotle every single night. It gets old after awhile. I miss my
brother and sister. I can’t wait to go to college and get out of here. I get up
and leave, sometimes right out the door, and almost every time they don’t even
notice. I miss my family. I miss family dinners. Life sucks. It’s the first time I’ve stepped foot in this house since
college. Mom and Dad got divorced as soon as I graduated. It was more of
something we had all been waiting for than anything like a surprise. On
holidays we started going to Mary’s in New York. Mom had decided to keep this
house, and the only reason we’re back here is because Dad just died. It was
sudden, no one expected him to have a heart attack. My mom makes us all her famous
chicken noodle soup. She’s really old now, and you can see it. Mary, Andy, and
I held her really tight today. She had always loved dad and we all knew that. I
sit down next to Andy. We leave the head of the table open, and Mom sits across
from me. Andy talks about when we were all little. Mary says she had secretly
always loved reading to me but never admitted it because she didn’t want Andy
to make fun of her. I say I miss that a lot. Mom cries. Andy makes her laugh,
which makes Mary laugh, which automatically still makes me laugh. We hold
hands. We pray. We thank God for what we still have. I look over to Daddy’s
chair and I remember him cutting my food and smiling at me. I smile back. I
thank God for family dinners, and all of the memories they have given me. In this
moment, life is good again. © 2013 tcd123 |
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