steping stone seven "Communication"

One very hard but very important tool to have in life is the ability to communicate. This is not just being able to speak words from your mouth nor able to write letters on a sheet of paper. But, the ability to communicate is being able to Receive, a message on a specific topic, Comprehend, the message by listening fully, and Responding, to the message staying on the topic. When spoken this is called Verbal Communication.

          When two parties are in need of addressing an issue among them they best way to do so is Verbal and in Person. They will need a calm, mutual setting in order to have a successful agreement. This is without Argument.  For, they both need to be calm, open minded, willingness, and accepting hearts. As, looking beyond what meets the eye, with No set solution in mind.

*Reminder: Communication is to receive, comprehend, and respond to a specific topic.

For ones conversation to be successful, Both,  parties must remain calm and fully comprehend the others views and opinions without any confusion, yet  accepting that everyone is entitled and will have different views to the issue at hand. Remaining calm is the only way to reach an agreement successfully. No matter what an angry mind and hear will Never succeed in anything.

 

          To comprehend without either parties becoming confused and angry can only be done if One person speaks at a time. This gives the other parties the ability  to respond correctly and honestly. This is all very hard for very many people, as they fail to show Respect for each other.

*Respect is a major role in having success in communication*

In turn, only leads to tempers flaring when there is no respect shown. This will always cause an argument, which only will be failure to come. As, fussing and fighting are both negative actions, therefore there will forever be Negative result.

          As one speaks the words from their mouth, this is only one direct communication preformed. While, one is speaking they also, give off “vibes” by their body language. Body language can say more than those words in which are being spoken. For, each facial expression, movement of your limbs, and gestures made can give a negative atmosphere around a person. As you may be saying one thing your expressions, movements, and tone of voice used can say much more. As, rolling your eyes, is being sarcastic, rapid body, movement shows impatience, and the tones in your voice can show angry and the care of the issue you have. .  

*Body Language can “Speak” louder than words*

If the emotional atmosphere created isn’t positive both parties are wasting their time and energy.  Keeping in mind this is Verbal Communication.

Very Seldom there is no way around it, but in the event there isn’t there is also, Written Communication. One should try every way around this if possible as someone whom is good with words can an excellent job on expressing themselves but the other party may not be as well with words and miscomprehend what is being said.

          Emotion can be expressed very vivid through writing. Thus, is why one should Only write with an open mind and heart in a calm setting and positive environment. As, if one shall write when angry this will show in your writings and will only get negative response, and as we know angry minds and hearts will only forever have failure.

*Always write with calm open mind and heart, Never with anger.*

In this method of communication you should choose the usage and your words carefully and assure they are used correctly.

          Those whom realize they can communicate Correctly will soon see the positive results. As, they will begin having success in many things such as; jobs, relationships, and have more support with others for whom they love and want that relationship restored with.

          The result can have many endings, as they can be restored relations or can become a mutual agreement between the parties. As, if the two can mutually agree on something is success, for they didn’t fuss and Agreed on a solution for they are both happy with. Which will be one issues completed and this will become now a prior issue. This is two ways one may communicate, for it takes many years to learn to do this correctly with positive results.

 

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[Sunshine]

Very hard to learn to do but one must learn this