Stepping Stone One "gaining self confidents"A Chapter by SunshineFor so long, you have been on a very long and lonely road. Now, it’s time, to regain Control of your life. To start living the life you’re proud to have, with happiness, and full of positive accomplishments. *In order, to change your life, you have to begin with yourself.* In, doing this you Must, regain your self-confidences. For this, is Not an easy task. In achieving this you must learn to believe in yourself. This will help establish and maintain your confidence in yourself. *Learn to make all choices and decisions from your heart!* If you do this with good intentions you will not need to second guess yourself. If you ever find you have a second thought, for this is normally because the decision you made was not the right one nor did you have the right intentions when making it. Taking a glance back, remember when you found yourself on, Rock Bottom? How there was No One there, but You and God! For, always lean on him, for he will Never lead you wrong, nor will you ever have to question this. *Keeping in mind, during your roadway to recovery, you’re going to need: Guidance, Confidences, Patients, Mental and Physical strength.* Look to him to give you these things and give him the thanks for answering your prayers that day, in sparring you your life and giving you the gift of today. *So many jump in to situations unknowingly and fail If you are patient the outcome will be more controllable.* Yet, still many wonder why patients are important. The answer is simple spoken but takes some many years to learn. *Example: you didn’t get where you was over night nor will you get to where you’re going over night!* So, take life one day at a time, in order to conquer each issue that may be lying ahead one at a time as the come before you. Take your time, Do Not Rush, or you’ll miss out on important positive things in life. A wise person once said: *“All Great Things Come To Those Whom Wait!”* All in the same, Patients! With patients come accomplishments, and for each accomplishment achieved you gain piece by piece back in your confidence. *If at any point during your recovery, you become Overwhelmed or rush you will fail* With every failure, only will come set back in establishing your confidence. When you begin to feel over whelmed, take a moment to rest. There are options to help channel your frustrations. *Example: writing in a journal and someone positive in your life to talk with* The journal, will help by you writing out your frustrations and your fears, and having someone you can trust and is a positive influence, and that have positive attitudes they will help explain those fears to you. Never, should you for get Prayer. *Having positive influences is a Must* In the world of your recovery, you must keep others around you whom always give positive, “never puts you down, brings only good views to you,” encouragement for your future. You must have guidance, for everyone needs this time to time throughout their life. Having a mentor to reassure you of yourself and what you have achieved will help you to start believing in yourself. *Every time you believe in yourself you regain more self-confidence* The more you believe in yourself, will come more challenges of the world. This is the Negative temptations trying to keep you from achieving your goal of Recovery. In order to Never give in to this you must be Mentally Strong. When you feel the pressure of the world you must keep your faith, have patience, and seek for guidance. For, you will be tested many times, even by society. Throughout your recovery, all the test thrown at you by society, mostly comes from those whom are unhappy within their own lives, and do not open up for change easily. However, instead of giving into them, Pray for them.In all, Never forget just the ability to have had another day was an accomplishment. There are many whom Never get this chance. Take a brief moment to fully accept the idea of change. You started changing at that moment you realized you wanted to change! This was your starting point. *Never, forget that moment, for this reason also helped you gain enough faith, hope, and confidence to take that first step.* Learning how to be honest with one’s self , accepting your past, taking responsibility, for your life and choices made, is all it gaining your confidence within yourself. Put faith in yourself and you can overcome even the largest obstacle to begin, put faith in knowing you have the right intention when making your decision. © 2013 Sunshine |
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1 Review Added on August 9, 2013 Last Updated on August 9, 2013 AuthorSunshineGainesville, GAAboutI'm 25 years old and have 3 wonderful babies. I have always loved to write and enjoy sharing them with others. For i hope one day, my words may touch someone and help them and their family. more..Writing
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