IntroductionA Chapter by SunshineFor you, life began when your parents choose to add to their family. When your first breath of air was drawn, at this very moment, your parents were faced with many decisions! They will, for many years to come, make many important decisions that affect, not only, their life. Now, their actions and choices will influence you directly and indirectly throughout life. Indeed, they are only human and will make mistakes in life. Importantly, they tried their best in raising you, establishing you a foundation for life. Your foundation is built upon your family values. In which, you have till yet to remember these values you were blessed with the ability to learn. With this ability you also learned between right and wrong. You see, this lesson began in early childhood and still learn from today. Instead of your parents telling you, you learn through your own choices and mistakes in life. But, if only one learns from their choice it becomes a Mistake, yet if one continues making the same choice with the same negative outcome, for they are only being Foolish. Up till now, throughout the years, you used the teachings and guidance from your parents. Now, as adults you must learn to use what your parents taught you to survive and establish a positive life for yourself. Although, your parents expect you to make mistakes alone the way. One must remember, if learned from and moved on from it is a mistake. Soon enough, you will learn there is a lesson to be learned in every life experience. When you find yourself in a bad situation it is normally because you never had good intentions to start with. In result, you must stand and face the punishment. You can only learn from this if you deal with the situation honestly. *Those that blame others, instead of taking, Responsibility, for Their actions already knew, their intentions were wrong.* So, with the views pointed out thus far, take a moment, and ask yourself what may be lying a head for you on this road. In, the event, your still being Foolish and Stubborn, it’s clear you’re Not ready yet. Soon, you will wish you had opened your mind at that moment instead of progressing down this path. Therefore, you didn’t and decided to continue to follow this path. Until, You are ready you will find yourself following the crowd. You feel as if your standing still in life and the same reoccurring problems keep you there. Your only blending in with the crowd around you, not realizing your letting life pass you by. *If you continue this you will miss out on many things, if you, Never, stand as an individual for you will keep failing in life for all the temptations.* For, as you continue to make these decisions, there are yet still many hard lessons to be learned. This path you are traveling will Only ever be an endless Dead-end path. “Where?” You , may ask. For, Only will you find yourself ,on this path, in jail, drug addictions, for most women, prostitution. Although the challenges it beholds, It Can All be Over came. There is Nothing in life Impossible, if You Truly want it, with having the right attitude to get it. The path of the world, only holds many dark areas. In time ,it will destroy, one’s self confidence. This which, takes devotion and determination to regain. *This is very hard for most people.* Especially know, their choices they have made were preventable. For this causes regret and shame which will keep ones self-confidence down. The shame and embarrassment of what your life have become will Not allow you to accept guidance, at this point and time. *This will continue until you’re finally ready to listen and accept positive advice from others.* When the moment comes, It Will, you will see you have nothing more to lose and No One to lean on. This is the moment you realize there has to be a Change. Here you will be the lowest you have ever been, Rock Bottom! Here and only here reality will hit you so hard, you will Fall to your knees, the only place you realize you can go. *For when you looked around you seen there were no one but You and God. For God will forever be the only one you have to turn to* Now , upon your knees, you find yourself begging and pleading with God to spare you a second chance. For, Hold him close, this road you have been traveling for so long is far from over. You’ve been through many different situations that require time, to overcome, for you will never overcome them you learn to live with them. Early on, choosing to curve your pathway would have been easier to overcome and deal with these things. *Example: Drug addiction, jail (legal fees), and prostitution* In Choosing to continue on this path, much more has happened. During the time you spent on this journey you will have met many people, face many offers, (not all offers had good intentions), and many different situations. For, these situations that presented them self will cause you to have had encounters that will haunt you for the rest of your life. *Most females go through these: they will be molested, “many times”, beat, robbed, and eventually left for dead if not murdered.* There are few whom survive these encounters, and for those whom do, Only, had God himself Protecting and Watching over Them. Now, ask yourself where was your, ”friends?” Not, there right! Honestly, you need the Blunt Truth, they were off getting High somewhere and in most cases Already knew what happened before you told them. Now, is the picture more clear? If not it will be by them time we finish, so lets get started, on turning Your Life around!! *Keeping in mind we will be using small steps to stay focused!* © 2013 Sunshine |
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1 Review Added on August 9, 2013 Last Updated on August 9, 2013 AuthorSunshineGainesville, GAAboutI'm 25 years old and have 3 wonderful babies. I have always loved to write and enjoy sharing them with others. For i hope one day, my words may touch someone and help them and their family. more..Writing
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