Be a real selfish

According to experts, we,human being are most intelligent creature in the world. We have ability to think better and do better. Always we remain busy to invent something, whether it is goof or bad. We always try to make ourselves happy. And to do that we always try to attempt such things which are conducive to bring happyness for us. Sometime we forget right-wrong. And we become selfish in such an extent yhat we do not hesitate to cause harm to our nearest and dearest ones also.
Who are among us highly educated and respected, sometime they also turn to be such a lower rank of people that we never expect that from them anyway. Even less educated man proves himself better than them at that time.
Our elders give advice to us always not to be too much selfish and help others in need. Many social workers have come out with their campaigning to make people philanthropist. Sometime their messages are accepted sometime not. But no one has denied the fact that we should always help each others. But the reason is unclear to mawhy.Why should we help oother? It becomes tough for us already to meet our daily needs and adding to it helping others is a really rigorous thing. Most of us take this matter casually. Many of us help others to gain blessings from god. Many do because of fear for beaing punished by the god if they cause harm to others. But very few people enjoy to help others. Many among the highly educated persons also try to find justification behind this philanthropic nature of human being. Many also search for scientific reasons behind it.
But there is a scientific reason working for the people so that they have to be helpful to each other. The reason stands like this -----

If we ask ourselves, what are we made up of? The answer is we are made up of bone, flesh, blood and energy.when we die, bone, flesh, blood all remains laid, except energy. That means energy is the main driving force of our daily functioning. So if we ask ourselves, who we are? The answer is we are energy. As Swami Vivekanada temed it as our permanent being. Not bone, not flesh not blood. In the same way all the people, better to say, all the obljects are made up of energy. Energy can not be created nor be destroyed. It is infinite. We can not limit this energy by any means as prescribed by the material world.
Then we can ask, Who I am? I am energy. My fellow being is also energy. Since energy is infinite. So , me and my friends are same. Only manifestations are different. If I have to serve myself then I have to serve my friends also. If I have to be a real selfish person then first I have to serve people around me . This is the only way to be a real selfish person . In this way we can also enjoy our real selfish nature.