Is it ok to call you SEXY?

Should I do this?

Is it ok?

 

Will I offend you?

Will you go away?

 

 

When I call you SEXY

 

 

Some are ok with this

They are even tickled

 

Some might want to know more

Will this put me in a pickle?

 

 

Am I really...... SEXY?   Is it true?

 

 

Is making this comment to a person offensive?

Is it something I should say?

 

Does it offend you?

Will you go away?

Author's Note

I want to know what you think of this issue, not the writing.

Reviews

[Melody Telleria]

"Sexy" feels more like the emphasis is on a physical level. I don't think its offensive. It IS nice to think a man thinks you are sexy. I guess if you take an encounter further you end up also wanting to hear that you are a beautiful person, inside and out, because thats on a deeper level. But being sexy isn't bad or offensive. Sexy is playful and less intimate.

[soliloquy]

Thank you for your thoughts. I agree with what you say since it makes sense.

[augustus]

I can remember when I was much younger I was introduced to a friends Sister. She had big b***s and it was a real effort on my part not to reach out and grab them. Then, I said 'My word, you are so sexy!' That got me a slap round my face. So much for being restrained!

[Dye]

If it is coming from a friend or a someone I am close to, then it is not offensive. But when someone I barely know says it, it makes me roll my eyes. I think you need to know your audience before you say it. I've had a few people send me PM's and all they say is "Hi sexy", I don't bother replying. That statement says, "I'm here to flirt and that's it", that's not why I'm here. If the PM comes with a sincere message and the person says "Oh and you look sexy", I wouldn't be as offended but I would let them know that I don't want to be called that, especially if they wish to continue to speak to me. Hope that helps.

[Catrina De Maria]

I think if it's a man you've known for a while, and you're in a relationship or thinking about starting one, then I think it's acceptable. If it's a random guy you've just met at a bar, and he's drunk and drooling all over you, then no that's not acceptable. It's disgusting.
Hope this helps! xx

[Steve]

Sorry it took so long to respond! I appreciate this comment and your reading something I wrote. That is great. I thank you for your thoughts!

[wandering daughter]

I found the font and colors distracting.
Also, the questions are a bit uhmm annoying. I would have like some answers, if you know what I mean.
I like your other poems much more. Hope this feedback helps :)

[soliloquy]

It does. Thank you. I appreciate you honestly.

[BrynnaW.]

Well I know it really isn't offensive but some women just want to be called beautiful. I once read something that had a dozen comments listed like Pretty, Beautiful, Gorgeous, and Sexy with the way a woman sees it next to each. Each person is different in the way they interpret the meaning. I know by my opinion sexy kind of sounds like a guy is only looking at the body and not the face and the personality. Whereas beautiful sounds like a guy is looking at everything and saying there is something genuine about her. But, yeah, every woman sees each word differently and interprets them in different ways, just have to know the person to know which would be more appropriate.

[soliloquy]

thank you! I agree

[Angel]

Most women want to feel that they are beautiful, and desirable.
Now, what was it you wanted to tell me??

[soliloquy]

thank you for reading .....your comment is cute too.

[soliloquy]

and SEXY as well.

[Angel]

LOL...why thank you, you smooth talking devil, you!