Honest Answers to Honest Questions

a survey of sorts....

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing

Who says "crushing" outside of high school ? I'm with you on that one.



2) Are you happy with who you are?

Yup. There are things that I haven't yet accomplished, but that has nothing to do with the person I am inside. I'm working through my bucket list.
:-)



3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?

FALL? NO...more like meld



4) Have you ever had your heart broken?

It's still beating, but yes. Not in the conventional sense of the term though. What breaks my heart is to see how fantastically cruel people can be to other people.



5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?

Who am I to judge? Everyone does what they feel they need to do. Are you asking me if I would go behind my partner's back for a bit of selfish indulgence? My answer to that would be no. However, I cannot expect others to act or be the way I am. We each have a path...if our paths should separate I would like to think that I would love him enough to let him follow his heart.


I've learned the value of loving someone for who they are and not for who I want them to be.




6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?

The only one that can cheat on me is me. I don't think that I would become involved with a selfish person...we'd have nothing in common


7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?

Talked, slept, wept. Yup.




8) Do you want children?

Yes.
Very much



9) How many?

I have two. They are amazing and wonderful and have taught me more than I could ever learn alone.




10) Would you consider adoption?

Yes, but adoption wouldn't consider me.


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you

Speak it. I'd have much more respect for that.




12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?

Playing is for fools. Life is fun, but never a game.




13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?

I speak my mind and respect others that do the same. I'll see through anything else.




14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?

Love is a choice. However intense attraction happens in a split second all the time.




15) Are you romantic?

Used to be.




16) Do you believe that you can change someone?

Nope. That's a responsibility I'm glad I don't have to accept.




17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?

Don't do weddings. Glad I never had to deal with that female hormonal pain-in-the-a*s do-it-my-way-or-else ritual. Thanks but you wouldn't catch me dead in my own wedding. The signed paper was good enough for me.




18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?

I have feelings for many many people. I wish more people did. We'd have a much more peaceful place to live.




19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?

Hmmm...I'll say I've been tempted...but hasn't everyone? It's what you do in the face of that temptation that shows your character. In my case, I go home thankful that I don't have to deal with the bullshit anymore.




20) Have you ever broken a heart?

Not my game. I am who I am, and not responsible for the reactions of others. I can only be responsible for my actions and reactions. I'm about as real as they come, if someone gets hurt by that, it's their choice. I'd like to think that people prefer honesty over anything. I know not everyone is like that. However, having dealt with pettiness and bullshit my whole life, I prefer not to dish it. Anyone who knows me knows where I stand.




21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?

No, but I might tell him what I think about it. I wouldn't be with him if I thought I had to deal with that elementary childish bullshit.


I will however stand behind him, and if I had to face off with someone regarding his character, I would do it in a heartbeat. He comes home to me, he sleeps with me...and we live. I think it's a great ego boost to have people flirt with you. I tell him that everyday. We're both very attractive people. It's a great feeling to not have to worry about petty jealousies. When you trust each other, this question becomes unnecessary.




22) What would you say about your last ex?

He's human just like me.

Reviews

[The Rock And Roll Cowbo..]

Whoa thank for sharing some more intimate details about you and your views, it's always nice to know someone I care about better... I have to say with number five though I judge people on that cause I find no excuse for cheating and i know I would never be with someone again after words cause I could never trust them again and trust is so big in a relationship...

thanks again for sharing, your a wonderful person and knowing you more is a great thing.

[Rain]

Very unusual post. Kind of refreshing to read reality for a change. Rain..