BELIEVE IN YOURSELFA Story by Ross MendozaI have been stuck in dozens of questions like that. And I kept searching for answers, measuring myself and squeezing myself to fit someone else's stereotype, forgetting my own life. Until now, I realized that it was a stupid job. I regret that I wasted my time chasing after the shadows of others in vain, reeling from their rhythm of life, forcing myself to stay in a tight box, leaving the good things in life. slipped through his fingers. Now, I have eliminated all the previous stupid questions, gradually realized my value, confidently stretched out to express my own nature, and every day passed for me so happy, meaning. I know that in the present life, there are many young people who have a habit of comparing themselves with other people better, so that they have a guilty thought, low self-esteem, self-torment and even resentment. They are struggling to find ways to succeed as someone else, collecting and imitating the quintessence of others because they think that this helps them shine as the enemy. However, the more they try to mold themselves into someone, force themselves, the more they are tired, miserable and stuck. Because forever they can not succeed when becoming copies of others. Instead, they must make use of their available energy and confidence in themselves to shine. Philosopher Wiliam James once wrote: "Compared to our true abilities, we are only half awakened. We are using only a very small part of our intellectual and physical resources. In general, each individual can do many things beyond their limits. People possess the power that we often do not know how to use. " Each person has different strengths and abilities. The most important thing is to be aware of who you are, what you need to do, discover the hidden power within you and take advantage of it. By that time, you will be able to do incredible things, go beyond your limits, become a shining star. So that you have no doubt about this issue, let's look back on the path to the success of the stars in the world: Dale Carnegie spent a year incorporating the ideas of the speakers into his manuscript. The mess of different ideas he wrote in magazines, so boring that no business man ignored them. He realized his stupid mistake. He decided to embark on writing a lecture on discourse based on experience, observations, his arguments drawn after many years as a speaker. As a result, his "how to win friend and influence people" became the best-selling book of all time. He told himself: "You must be Dale Carnegie with faults and limitations. You cannot be anyone else." It was this thought that helped him succeed. When Charlie Chaplin first acted, the director made him imitate the comedian of the time. This made him ridiculous, terrible in the eyes of the public. It was only when he showed his true talent that he made a strong impact on the audience. Will Rogers has performed pantomime with ropes for years without success, until he discovered his unique sense of humor through witty sarcasm. He started to play famous plays and became famous. When Mary Mageret McBride first aired, she tried to imitate the Irish comedian but failed. When expressing herself, the simple rural girl from Missouri, she became one of New York's most famous stars. Gene Autry tried to remove the Texas accent, imitating the dress style of a young man living in New York City. Everyone was laughing at his back. But when he plucked the banjo and sang batat songs about the cowboy, Gane Autry became one of the most famous cowboys in the world on film and radio. I know that in the present life, there are many young people who have a habit of comparing themselves with other people better, so that they have a guilty thought, low self-esteem, self-torment and even resentment. They are struggling to find ways to succeed as someone else, collecting and imitating the quintessence of others because they think that this helps them shine as the enemy. However, the more they try to mold themselves into someone, force themselves, the more they are tired, miserable and stuck. Because forever they can not succeed when becoming copies of others. Instead, they must make use of their available energy and confidence in themselves to shine. Philosopher Wiliam James once wrote: "Compared to our true abilities, we are only half awakened. We are using only a very small part of our intellectual and physical resources. In general, each individual can do many things beyond their limits. People possess the power that we often do not know how to use. " Each person has different strengths and abilities. The most important thing is to be aware of who you are, what you need to do, discover the hidden power within you and take advantage of it. By that time, you will be able to do incredible things, go beyond your limits, become a shining star. So that you have no doubt about this issue, let's look back on the path to the success of the stars in the world: Dale Carnegie spent a year incorporating the ideas of the speakers into his manuscript. The mess of different ideas he wrote in magazines, so boring that no business man ignored them. He realized his stupid mistake. He decided to embark on writing a lecture on discourse based on experience, observations, his arguments drawn after many years as a speaker. As a result, his "how to win friend and influence people" became the best-selling book of all time. He told himself: "You must be Dale Carnegie with faults and limitations. You cannot be anyone else." It was this thought that helped him succeed. When Charlie Chaplin first acted, the director made him imitate the comedian of the time. This made him ridiculous, terrible in the eyes of the public. It was only when he showed his true talent that he made a strong impact on the audience. Will Rogers has performed pantomime with ropes for years without success, until he discovered his unique sense of humor through witty sarcasm. He started to play famous plays and became famous. When Mary Mageret McBride first aired, she tried to imitate the Irish comedian but failed. When expressing herself, the simple rural girl from Missouri, she became one of New York's most famous stars. Gene Autry tried to remove the Texas accent, imitating the dress style of a young man living in New York City. Everyone was laughing at his back. But when he plucked the banjo and sang batat songs about the cowboy, Gane Autry became one of the most famous cowboys in the world on film and radio. You see, the reason they are famous all the time is because they know themselves, take full advantage of their hidden talents. So right now, close your eyes and think about who you really are, it might take you a process to find the answer, and then confidently show your unique style of yourself, promoting all the "elite" hidden in you. You will be happy and make extraordinary things. Destroy your inferiority complex, inferiority complex. It's foolish that you always compare yourself to others and torment yourself, reproach yourself, learn to make someone's copy, hang around living in a cramped, inappropriate mold. It is impossible to judge the talent of a fish when climbing a tree, or catching a fish living on the shore and how to compare the beauty of the moon and the sun. Disappointment, self-hatred, imitating others are what lead you into the dark, deep pit of failure. Remember, each of us is a new being, bringing a different flavor, color to beautify this life. You and I have different talents, only you know who you are, even you don't know until you try yourself. To be successful in life, you must constantly strive and follow your time. Have you ever wondered why other people have succeeded and that you have stood still despite trying? Do not be disappointed, depressed about yourself, jealous of others. It is because each of us is developing according to our own time zone. Some graduates at the age of 22, after graduation have earned themselves a good job, but there are also people who take 5 years.I get a stable job. Some 22-year-old became a CEO and left at age 50. Meanwhile, others became CEO at age 50 and died at age 90. Obama retired at 55, Trump became president at age 70. Abraham Lincoln has gone through eight failures in elections, and he finally became president at the age of 51. These are examples that inspire you to help you believe in time success. own. We all have different races, different developmental processes in separate time zones. We are like stars who are constantly trying and waiting for the opportunity to shine. Take a deep breath, smile optimistically, explore your soul and confidently show your different nature in colorful life. Do not chase anyone, try to persevere in your race, sooner or later you will reach the finish line. © 2019 Ross MendozaAuthor's Note
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