You Liar!

Okay, so you ain't just gonna lie to the world out there; because may be it's not that huge for you: so to who else? Ohh, probably yourself. 

You always knew what your heart wanted, like always. But, what you are quite good at is shaking your thoughts away. You knew that it would be wise to listen to the heart, even when the heart starts saying that listen to your brain. That also remained as not acknowledged. 

We, humans have a tendency to collect such stories of life which would make our life tremendously dramatic. Not that we can avoid the pain of sadness, but why invite some of such stories at the first place?( Some being uninvited). Okay, whether we admit it or not but we all have a tendency to be short sighted and that makes us a loser in our own game. It is said that live in the present, well this present also sometimes asks to have a look at how you want your future to be. If you are not going to have a look at your future, then you are probably moving with the flow in the present. So, here is an alert. 'Moving with the flow' is the very right concept( Is it not true that you must have had thought this.). But, no flow can decide your happiness until it is defined by you. It is a matter of saying, especially when you are supposed to be giving advice to certain people. But, once when it is realized that the direction in which your life is moving is not the way you wanted it to be; all the theories come to peace. Giving life the driving seat and yourself sitting as a passenger would give you rest but that is just going to be physical. Well, take care of your mental rest. 

No one is such big a fool to not know what makes them happy. Then, why do we end up preparing for the regrets. One prime reason is because of the fact that we work on existing theories. Well, they are not that generalised to be working for every single person. Can be a gain or a pain. You decide. Before adopting any theory that is there already existing in the market, try and identify your problem and create your own theory. And when it is yours, it is from your experience; just like the previous ones which came into existence because of some of the experiences by some of the people. So, it worked for them. That brings it down to the fact that since it was their theory out of their life; so it worked for them.

Well, this not listening to the heart kind of a game is for sure a teaser and might sometimes end up for us in a much more better place. So, if you are preparing to take that kind of a risk then promise yourself that you would not cry just in case you fail. Because, that just totally makes sense. Then no Blame game, just lessons for life.

It is not that easy, though(neither listening nor not listening). Because, we are governed by several other dimensions in our life. So, then what? Figure out your approach; for every single being out there happiness has a different meaning. No one can really bring it down to one final measure. That is why, the more time one invests in oneself; the more happier one gets.

Author's Note

Did that make some sense? Let's try and bring down some measures of happiness in the next chapter.