help!

i need advice

theres this boy and we went out for 2 years and he really hurt me he wants me back but its hard to tell when hes lying and im thinking why would he want me back but he does. and i want to but somethings not letting me but i dont know wha tto do?

help me

Author's Note

dear prudence........

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[Nocturne]

Well, if this is a serious question, I'd advise you to not go back. Someone who truly loves you would not hurt you. It's as simple as that. Certainly, there can be accidents, but this is along the lines of the guy accidentally bumping into you and knocking you over. Or saying something without thinking about how it might affect you -> "I think high heels are stupid and girls that wear them look like dorks...oh wait, you wear high heels...I'm so sorry!"

Those are natural and understandable. Anything beyond that, whether it be malicious verbal abuse or physical, should not be stood for. You're better than that, and if you give yourself the chance, you'll find yourself a guy who will adore you, love you, and never ever allow himself to do anything close to hurting you.

Yes, being with him for two years makes the idea of not forgiving him seem like you're about to throw away those two years. But you're not. If you had good times, nothing will ever take them away from you. They're still yours and still as wonderful as they were when they happened. Nothing is ever wasted.

Still, the real decision is up to you. Think about what other people say, but don't let it make your decision for you. It's your life. Do what will make you happy.

Good luck,
Naiya