The challenges of living with and loving someone who is dealing with Cancer

The challenges of living with and loving someone who is dealing with the Cancer

Is far from easy. I can tell you.

They have mood swings.

Other times they are happy

and taking each new day

in a more positive approach.

And other days. They are

knee deep down in the darkness

and just can't see any light.

Those days are tough.

Outwith the harsh, gruelling

treatments, medication,

Doctors, Hospital visits.

And keep notes and list of

this and that.

It's far from easy for them.

To take in all. The diagnoses

the treatment and then the

waiting game. Of wondering

is it all in vain.

 Did it work or not.

Am I Cancer free Or am I

going to die eventually.

This is a cruel disease and evil.

It does not care what your background

is your money statues. Or what part of

the Country Or World you come from.

Let alone if your young or old.

The list is endless to what this

monster does not care about.

It's okay for me to say I understand

When truefully I really don't fully

understand Only the people that

this Beast makes suffer understand

fully what it's truefully like to

face this Devil in the face each and

every day.

I admire their courage, faith, hope,

determination and love to fight

and not give up.

That is an understatement of what

these people deal with and must

overcome and defeat.

Us as family members. Are

spectators of this nightmare.

Who try to give comfort, hope,

love and encouragement when

they find it tough.

Let alone us having to see what

a loved one has to cope with.

We are okay. In a way. As it's

not us. But it does not make

it any easier.

They suffer as we do.

But they are the warriors

and the true heroes and

heroines.

Another thing is some people

even back off from them thinking

they are lepers and to me that is

sad. Like they think it is catching.

How nuts can you be.

And that is family members.

I am talking about.