Constructive Advice...

I wish my man did not have Cancer

I wish everything was different

instead of bad.

And only good things happen to us

and everyone on this planet.

But sadly life is just not like that.

Bad things do happen.

And it's how we deal with them

that makes us stronger or better.

To cope with and survive those really

hard times.

Easy said than done, for the majority

of the human planet. Including myself

and my hubby.

The best plan is to take each new day as it

comes along.

And deal with each problem

one at a time. In order of the most important

one to be faced with first and then the less needed

sorted and so forth.

Also got to find time to try to relax and chill if you

can.

Let alone good quality sleeping time at bedtime.

Even if it's just time to be alone.

Or mix with your friends. Let alone enjoy a hobby you

like.

You can not let your problems.

Take you over.

And control you.

As it will just destroy you

and make you go under with depression, anxiety

and maybe even a nervous breakdown.

Also, express yourself and get it out.

Cleanse your heart and soul.

Reach out.

For support,  help and understanding friendships

let alone someone to share and advice you.

Never burden yourself alone with your woes.

As that is the worse thing you can do.