Deal with bad things?

Why do bad things happen?

Why did she have to die

my mother-in-law?

Why do I suffer from anxiety

and stress?

Why did he get cancer?

Oh, why,

why,  why?

If

I could answer

some of my

own questions.

I would be a

complete

and utter smart a*s.

But I can not

answer them.

Only the Big guy above ie God.

If you believe in God.

Or some other greater power

known to man.

I can only presume.

Things happen for a reason.

And eventually,

  I/we will find out that

reason why?

or maybe never.

Until then.

I/We just have to deal

with the present ie now

and get through the tough times ahead.

And as the days and weeks

roll past.

You just get on with it

and deal with it.

Best you can.

And the questions... Why?

become irrelevant.

As you become focused on just

dealing with the facts

of here and now

and not the questions

anymore.

As they

fade and become unimportant

to the bigger picture

of present.

Focusing on now.