Self Love & Self Worth..... Tips.

When I was young I used to believe.

I didn't deserve to be loved let

alone even liked.

By anyone more so my own self.

I felt I was meant to be put on this earth

just to be abused, mistreated, hurt and to suffer

pain daily every day of my life until I eventually die.

That is honestly how I felt and believed when younger.

 And that was

my punishment for being born.

I didn't ask to be given birth to.

I was thrust onto this planet and that was it.

But over time.

I did learn to like myself.

Little by little.

By doing nice things that made "Me smile"

Like I love to just lay in a nice relaxing bath

and chill. I started doing that.

I also love music. So I started to listening to tracks

I enjoyed. Why?  Because I liked. Me.

And over time. I learned to like me. For me.

Then you gradually start to love yourselves also.

By doing little kind acts for YOU.

No point in looking for someone to love you

and make you. Love yourself. It does not work.

That way.

All you find is someone who uses and abuses you

and mistreats you. And makes you feel worse about

yourself long run. Believe me. I have been their wrote

the book and got the t-shirt to prove it.

So start slowly doing nice things for you.

And over time you start to love you... for you.

Then you can work on loving someone else. And then

them loving you. As you become more confident in yourself

also. That is if you eventually want a partner

as you might be that happy. You do not want one at all.

As in life. You don't need another person to be happy.

You just choose one if you both like. And work on your

relationship together.

Self-love, self-worth and self-confidence. Is vital first

and foremost for you.

Why? Because simply put YOU DESERVE IT.

SO BE KIND TO YOU FIRST AND FOREMOST

AND LEARN TO LIKE YOU AND THEN LOVE YOU.

PLEASE FROM ONE. WHO DOES KNOW WHAT IT

FEELS LIKE TO HATE YOURSELFS.

AND WALKED IN YOUR SHOES. BELIEVE ME.

Reviews

[Arpita Mondal]

This is so beautiful. I felt so connected to this. Almost as if you read my feelings and penned them down. :)

And even if its hard at times, and you feel you don't deserve to be loved , its so very important to love yourself. Because you deserve that and at times ,you're all you've got.

[Onlyme]

See told you Arpita I understand. As I was YOU also. Start now to like you little by little baby steps and over time you will start to love you. hugs..

[Arpita Mondal]

Thank you so much Dee.
I'll try my best to love myself and acknowledge my self worth . :)

[Lyn Anderson]

If you don't love yourself, you can't look outside for that love. A nice groping of self love thoughts. I especially like the periods, that break all the rules but in this piece work well.
One note - yourselves as opposed to yourselfs.

[Onlyme]

Thanks Lyn.

[Chris Shaw]

Such wisdom in your lines Dee. There are many who will learn from your experience. How true, you have to love yourself before you can love another.

Chris

[Onlyme]

Thanks Chris, and exactly Chris, I did learn the hard way myself.

[lightsong]

You are a strong and a REALLY beautiful one Dee, believe me, not many will be able to walk in Your shoes and end up in the great way You did, most people need an external motivation to work and progress, they need a "material" thing to give them assurance and comfort, only those few who lean only on THEMSELVES, knowing, being aware that it's all INSIDE of them, and it's all about THEM and only THEM, they need to heal their inner first, so they can move on, external will fade and disappear, what will be left is only YOUR being, YOUR INNER.

You give the best in Your lessons my dear, I know many need Your caring, generous and wise pen, I'm so proud of You, as I know You are so proud of Yourself!

[Onlyme]

Thank you Light for your kindness and true friendship. You help build me up when iam down. Bless you sweetheart.