Just Friends...

pls click the link to see my poem 

http://icecreamandrainbows.blogspot.com/2013/12/just-friends.html

Reviews

[Kenzi Griffin]

This poem.... my gods, could you explain my situation more clearly... I want to end this "just friends" thing.. but I don't want to lose him and anytime I say that I can't do the "just friends" thing, he says we're not, we're more. But we're not "us" it's him and I. You are a great writer, and I encourage you to continue writing, let your feelings flow from your thoughts, to your arm, down your wrist and to the paper. Let your brilliance and inner being show. Good job on this terrific write. :)

[N!LoC]

thanks a bunch kenzi!... see.. i knew you and me were going through the same kinda stuff... i can tell by our similar themes of writing.. lol... being friends with someone you still love and truly care so deeply about.. can be the hardest thing on earth to do.. and i still struggle everyday thinking if i should let go.. or hold on to someone who i know i'll never ever find in this lifetime ever again... it's all about life and it's lessons... glad we can relate about this kinda stuff kenzi :-)

[Kenzi Griffin]

Omg, yes. You explained it in words. And it is such a struggle. It hurts so much but I can't let go. It's just not possible for me.

[jacob erin-cilberto]

after awhile, we let go...we have to for our own sanity...but at least we know we tried everything we could...

[N!LoC]

for our own sanity... ? funny that u say that... because sometimes i do feel like i drive my self insane .. and the feelings i have just don't seem to want to go away... which makes me think.... (gosh.. i can't live without this person)... and maybe there's a reason why...

[Frieda P]

Awwh N!LoC, not again. Hurts when our love isn't reciprocated, you've pen'd it aptly.

[N!LoC]

sigh... thanks so much frie... hey... pls keep sending me your read requests ok.. haven't seen much of yours lately on my list...

[Frieda P]

You're welcome N, haven't been sending them out, shut my RR's down for the time being, I have so many to return since I was gone for what seems eons.....have a great New Year luv!

[N!LoC]

happy new year to you too ! keep on writing ... keep on reading!

[Frieda P]

Always.................!

[Baby Ricochet]

It's the word " just" that kills ya. I'm not to sure what "just friends" means in the gay romance game but I do know when a chick says it to you it means you're a sexless eunuch to her because you failed to turn her on. Gay men being turned on the same way straight men are and just as sexualy driven the dynamics are clearly different between them. I don't know if it's any easier but at least gays are on the same page. Half the time menandwomen aren't even ibin the same galaxy.

[N!LoC]

as for me... this "just friends" takes on a meaning on a very personal level... complicated almost... but yes.. i do personally think that it's harder to keep the lines drawn when it comes to gay guys... seriously... :-)