BE WHAT YOU WANT TO BECOME..

“Be yourself because an original is worth more than a copy.”
Those of you reading this know that there are a lot more people out there who read such quotes
and articles. But if you are here to make a difference in yourself is and actually be yourself for
yourself you should read on.
Most of the world today(here I am not referring to celebs but to the familiar faces we see
everyday) strives to be themselves. We post on all social media available about how we are
ourselves.About how we are crazy and abnormal human beings and so on.
Ever bothered enough to ask yourself the question of ,’why then in the end do people fall victim
to daily high school drama?’ Ever tried analyzing the roots of your behaviour and reaching to a
point where you sit there mouth-hanging-open and go like ‘how the hell did I manage to live half
my life so far based on what others will make out of it?’
I’m sure everyone reading this has at least once in their lives changed for a person.The
outcome isn’t the prettiest version of yourself though is it? Those of you that have done so,
would know that at a point it becomes frustrating and it begins to affect you at a whole new
level. That people is your cue, to walk away and say, “I’m sorry I can’t be someone who is a
stranger to me.”
After doing this through varied actions and words people eventually peel off your life and then
comes the sad moment. That moment where you sit there gulping down ice-cream saying(to
yourself I daresay), “ I don’t know what to do they said you should be yourself I did, now no one
likes me the way I am.” This is phase one. Once you start spending some more time analysing
the scenario through YOUR OWN eyes you begin to realise that the person you thought to be
the real you was merely a fragment of it. A whole package of surprises still awaits you.
Phase two starts shortly after. You have a long hearty mental breakdown and then realise that
you shouldn’t be sad for being yourself. So you decide to motivate yourself all you can..Give
power to that voice in your nerdy little head that is always blurting quotes out to encourage you.
Finally comes phase three. The reap of your hard work. Finally you feel a sense of belonging in
yourself. You embrace your routine, your circumstances, your breakdown and your most
cheerful days. This is the time you are you. But what if you think there can be a better
version?Will that be being uncertain or wanting to change. Change is NOT a negative word.
Wanting to change is wanting to grow .
“We can’t become what we want to by remaining what we are.”
So dear readers, climb the first rung of the ladder, live through phase one and prove that you
can come out gleaming like a diamond through phase three. Become what you want to become.
-xoxo
-Nishita Kamdar😘😘�'��'�

Author's Note

Share your views you guys sitting out there...I'm sure everyone has been at least acquainted with situations such as those mentioned here...so would love to see everyone's take on it..