Conceptualization of Values

 Human incentive to grow and change is usually regulated by what humans deem have value to themselves and to that which is around them either human, animal, or even imaginative. In extreme cases even the indigenous of many cultures who lived symbiotically within their landbase and with eachother had individuals born who wanted something different for themselves than what was available, presented, inculcated or seemingly possible. Whether these ideas, actions, changes, or wills were considered to be good or evil to themselves or to those in their societies or even now in retrospect in contrast to their or our current cultures standards and values, it remains that these individuals had an inescapable reality or disposition. These people were ostracized from their cultures mostly, however, there were cases where ostricization was either not possible or not in the lexicon of the culture. These people generally, because of their will for their individual happiness or feelings of right, and need for personal desire to bear that fruit, changed culture, changed society, changed the landbase and changed even humanities relationship and understanding of such abstracts and physicalities around them.

 

These people were born with nothing more than will, no super powers, no ability to fly or have super strength in order to protect themselves from the consequences of there iteration of truth or to give a sense of strength to create confidence in their ability to create the conditions for the change. Fear was not a possible conceptualization. To the smallest scale in our lives we make choices, conscious or not, which we have bent from our will. Our will being designed and furnished not as human nature but as human behavior, our individual minds exist and are formed by a preconditioned society and culture or our ability to receive information on the experiences of individuals in other societies.

 

We do not fear to drive in order to make our trips faster and to accomplish what we know we need too for our children and ourselves, though nothing has killed more people than cars in the world every day, every year nearly since their inception. Fear is not a possible conceptualization for drivers. However, when we drive faster than we normally do, come too close to another vehicle, veer off the road, or nearly hit a pedestrian fear enters our hearts. Beaten down by the normalcy of the impossibility of fear we forget what it is to veer off the normal course. To those that want what is not accepted or a reality in their current culture or society or relationship fear is not a possible conceptualization in the same nature that it is to not veer off course while driving. To those that are the change, to those that can only live by their will, this fear is understood and progressed into action by the understanding (conscious or not) of the greater need for the will to be realized than for the fear to be. Just as most if not all of us do not want to kill, many soldiers…(though all military to me and anyone who picks up a gun for its purposes are idiots and propagators of a will against my own I still make this analogy for ease of use)…pick up a gun and fear becomes the secondary emotion if even ever realized or fully conceptualized once their will is set upon its needs and desires such as “kill the terrorists” or “protect my family” or “protect my land from invaders” or other such ideals or realities.

 

In relationships all of this becomes a bit more personal and as such harder to realize the defining values than the larger scale and encompassing society and culture we live in, which we are given many, and have had a lot more inculcation into the rightness of many possibilities. In personal relationships the changes are smaller, the needs greater and the will more distorted by all our culture and societys standards and its own conceptualizations that are taught and learned throughout ones life. Truly, in my opinion, the only way to be happy, is to realize ones will. Seems simple enough, even the statement “know your will” seems simple. However it is never focused on and in fact is deterred through our corrupt education system, through our corrupt vision of women or ethnicity, through our corrupt use of our landbase and its resources, etc. Individual will, though touted to be the reason for most of civilizations inceptions over the centuries, and also touted as the reason for the initial and continual togetherness of individuals, aka relationships, gets lost in the corruption of conceptualization and fear and becomes defined by values outside of our own (conscious or not).

 

If we find our will and speak it to ourselves, not just thought of then disregarded, if we focus on it and it becomes our reality, through the non deference of its reality, then the fear of growing and changing becomes secondary if even conceptualized to what our will needs and desires. This is a very very long way of saying to you to know your will, not just say it in passing or to think for a second at most of what it is, or to beat around the bush about what it is not, but to know it and it will become your reality. The choices you will face will lose fear as its reality and will gain momentum towards accomplishment and happiness by just its very realization.