A Love Story of Confusion With a Bad Ending

A true life story.

To start off there is a man that i used to love and this is our story. Like it or not this is what it was and what it turned it to and how it ended. There is romantic wonderland in which you would fall for the man or woman in this story. its just what it is and there is no changing that fact. For not all love stories and of true love.

I have met him before even seen and memorized his face in time. I was fairly young when i saw him, he was handsome yet husky but with an attitude of a champion. I fell for him early but never said a word until years later when I saw him skinnier and looking sad. I courted him, I gave all i had to get his attention yet I had no idea he were taken. He had kids a woman and all he needed and he left them for me. I worked were he worked and sadly were they as a couple lived above the restaurant.

Yes it was taboo, yes i am un-respectable for my actions but so was he for he seemed and acted as if he were a man he wasn't. He fooled me into thinking he was what i wanted for i was stupid enough to confide in him of what i desired. i spent all the money i earned and all the effort i could making him mine. One day i won him, was confronted by the so called tyrant he said he was controlled by. She seemed just as he described at the time until we became a real couple. Things changed from heaven to hell in a matter of days. He cheated he lied and by my calculations it was for his children eight times. I know what you are thinking, how could I let him hurt me eight times like that? I was thinking of the children letting him get away with it. I was 18 he was 28, yes that is a large difference but i am never one to care of age as long as its legal love is love correct? But i was naive and in store for a whole tsunami of hell headed my way. We moved in together to early and i realized what he really was. He was a sociopath, a complete idiot, and a liar even about the simple things. I moved out in high hopes we could reconnect maybe re-kindle what was lost after the realization and dis-trout he caused by gettign drunk and being crazy over my friendships with other men.

As i relaxed at home on my own learning more and more about his tell signs of being obsessed when i did not live with him. I became wary and cautious of him. He then began to stalk me on the internet and text me every two seconds because i did not reply. I found it cute and romantic until he started being rude and unconventional with his methods. Yelling and being rude for everything I ever did, I couldn't use facebook or anything what so ever without him reacting as if I was a liar or a cheater. I could never be unloyal and he couldn't believe it due to guilt and the deception of himself. He made me mad every time we spoke because he would never tell me were or why he was were he was. When he did it was a lie or a slightly altered story. He treated me well with sweet words and nice dates when i told him id like one for once. But that wasnt enough because i always paid for half of every one of them. One day i couldn't take it anymore because who would want to be with whom who acted as if you were what they were in the past?

Life got easier slowly because moving out made it easier for myself to take prospective of what we were as a couple but we weren't and we were more of best friends then anything. Once when i asked him to give me space and he hated me called me names hurt me deeply and made lies of me all over the social network i was involved in. he didn't care just wanted me hurt like he was and he did it again when i left him this time. This man was the love of my life i thought and i was wrong, he turned into a stalker and a ridiculously attached boyfriend before that. I am single and need to be at this moment because i hate hurting people but this should be a lesson to most girls, no matter how old they are or how stable they seem they will change at the snap of a finger and it is always best to assess ba man and get to know him past and present before you let him in. Or you could end up like me my dear, a fake social outcast due to the words of a hurt jerk.