My country boy is phenominal. He's extrodinary. He's even perfect, well actually not even close. He has some flaws but what normal person doesn't? One of his flaws is that he can't cum inside of me, it HAS to be on me. Disgusting, I know. We've talked about it plenty of times. And I've set the line, for if he crosses no sex for awhile. Another flaw of his, is that he lovingly "jokes" about my belly being a beer belly. I'm very self concious about my stomach. So I've told him, that until my "beer belly" is gone, we're not having sex. See how I use taking away sex from him as a punishment. Am I afraid to open these legs to him that much? or is it from past sexual partners that are making me do this? And when I told him that, he jumped in saying that I was perfect the way I was and I shouldn't change a thing. Compliment or desperate attempt ? Bottom line, why is sex a key item in a relationship?