habits

I just realized I ask my boyfriend if hes okay a lot.

Even if he seems completely fine I'll still ask

"you good babe?" or "are you okay?" or at least ask how

his day is going just to make sure he's not having a bad one.

Even when he tells me everything is fine I still 

ask if there's anything I can do to make his day better. 

I'm sure he gets annoyed by my constant asking.

It can happen multiple times a day. 

It seems like a habit.

And now,

I think I finally understand why I do this.

When I was falling apart

No one ever asked if I was okay."