Good thing and Bad thing in love-at-first-sight

Giving you the two sides of good, and the bad, of having love-at-first-sight

Sometimes, things that you least expected are the ones that happens the most. Coming just right out of nowhere and surprising the hell out of your soul. Falling in-love is what is known to be a very long complex process and a big time wastage before one would realize it though. And we never know that with just a simple glance, a simple look, that very long complex process- can happen immediately right in front of you.   

We can’t deny the fact that there are really people existing in this round, green and blue planet, which are so irresistible and mesmerizing even just at first look. They are like falling stars, sparkling and shinning right before our very eyes. They are the ones who give us that kind of moment where the time suddenly stops, a beautiful music then play in perfection, and all you see is that guy giving you the most unexplainable feelings in which you wouldn’t realize that it is already falling in-love. And this kind of scenario is often known now to most teenagers called as the “Love-at-first-sight”. The love that happens in just a matter of seconds looking at someone, who makes you stunned for a while, with words completely gone, feet frozen on the ground, and all you can do was to smile at that person- with of course maybe creeping him out because you look like a complete moron smiling suddenly for no reason at him. But he never knows how you already deeply fall in-love to him in just a simple look. Crazy but true.

But before anything else, let us now discuss on what could be the possible good things and bad things that can happen in having “love-at-first-sight”. So first of all, let’s talk about the good thing.

Now, the good thing about having “love-at-first-sight” is simply- it makes you happy. It makes you feel like you are floating in the clouds and no other people around you, just only you and him. How sweet. You feel like you are having the time of your life with him while a cute music is playing everywhere, making the environment more romantic with a little Nashville on it. Just imagine that. You don’t have to sing Bruno Mars song anymore to be a billionaire, cause by just the feeling he is putting on you, you are already worth more than a billionaire! It is the feeling, worth more than anything else that even money cannot buy alone. This kind of happiness could ever be the best good thing that you can feel in having love at a first glance.

But as what they say, a protagonist will never exist without having any antagonist. And so as with the good thing, will obviously… of course… also have the so called bad thing.

Now the bad thing in having “love-at-first-sight” can be stated out in three reasons. One, you are just making your own fantasy. Two, you do not know that person. And three, you are madly in-love with the person whom you don’t have any idea if he also has the feelings for you. Now, you might be thinking why it’s only a fantasy? Just from the start that you feel like your world stops, suddenly a beautiful music is playing, and you see that the person you like looks like a glitter with shinning and shimmering effects, just from that time- you are already fantasizing him! You are just imagining everything. You are only letting out that wild imagination of yours. You are even making illusions like, you and him… sitting on a tree… then suddenly you K-I-S-S-I-N-G. You are just creating a world of fantasy with only diminutive chance that it might be a reality. So sad, isn’t it?

Let’s move on now with the second reason, which is not necessary anymore for me to explain. Why? Haven’t your Mom taught of you of no talking to strangers? Well I hope she does. Even if you fall in-love with that person it doesn’t mean you can just idolize and follow him anywhere. ‘Cause remember, HE IS A STRANGER. And it might be a little awkward loving a person without even knowing the basic information about him, right? Because logically speaking, you should not fall in-love with him anyway, and straightforward reasoning, it’s because you don’t know anything about him. The end.

Now the last reason, just like the second one, you don’t know anything about that person and so you also don’t have any idea if he has also the feelings for you. You are just clueless and empty-minded even if you keep on thinking the probabilities that he also like you. You would just still keep on fantasizing him because it’s only the best option you have. But the worst thing in there is that you are just waiting for nothing. Hoping for something with no any assurance that you would get it. It is just like opening an empty bottle of pickle- why would you waste time doing it even if you actually know you won’t get anything in return? And the probable result is that you might just hurt yourself for expecting, right? And so “love-at-first-sight” could also be a big three “NO! NO! NO!”

Falling in-love is really complicated. You might think it was it already, but it was just the other way around. It is also a damn long complex process, yet you didn’t expect that it can even happen in just a simple glance. But there’s nothing wrong of having neither the “love-at-first-sight” nor anything good about it too. It only depends on how you are going to work it out, and decide if this “love-at-first-sight”, was in the right time, the right place, and with the right person. And also with the right decision and good preparation, the right love will be handed not on your left, but on you right chest- at the exact spot of your heart.        

 

Author's Note

I just did it in a hurry, hoping for criticisms and advices :D Review!