All in the touch

it doesn't matter what it is,
   all in the touch.

You can notice when someone cares,
  has a feel for what they are doing.

Not just going through the motion.

Of course,
  you have to pay attention,
   and not take it for granted.

You are part of it,
  noticing,
   and encouraging.

Otherwise,
  some will simply go through the motions.