![]() The Could-HavesA Poem by Joshua SternRead the obituaries if you haven’t lately:
A Broadway actress who would have stormed stages up the ladder to fame, won two Tonys, and with her portrayals sparked empathy, brought insight into the human condition, and inspired people to live died last week when her parents sat her down and administered The Talk: that if she expected them to pay for her college she had a responsibility to make it count, to do something Useful. She applied that night and, dreading their disdain, changed her mind from musical theatre to chemical engineering.
A Creative Writing major who would have penned the literary masterwork of the century, a combination novel and poem that would have emerged from underground and taken on the meaning of life and love and language quite like nothing before it, died last month when his first college writing professor gave him Reality Check 101: that the sorts of long, experimental, self-referential pieces he was oh-so-into writing are simply not what people, much less the market, want right now; that you can’t make a living by sitting at your computer screen goofing off for page after page. He took a long look in the mirror that night and finally told himself the professor knows best-- scrapped the plans for a masterpiece and shifted focus to young-adult dystopian novels.
A Philosophy and Art History double-major who would have lived for the present and to the fullest post-graduation--landed a solid library job in his hometown, did radio and expressed himself through writing on the side, and cultivated a circle of friends, a reason to live-- died yesterday when a friend of his parents’ sprang the old “And what do you plan on doing with that?” line on him over dinner: that it was foolish to spend four years of life and, more important, four years of tuition on a hobby, a major that serves only the purpose of self-enrichment without a plan like teaching.
The leading cause of death among young people these days is not cancer or car crashes but rather adults who think they know better. They preach that the meaning we each find in life is measured in dollars;
and some of them will go to rallies and hold up signs to save the unborn, yet they have no problem killing unformed stars and artists and authors and prophets and goals and dreams and visions.
Campuses are compasses with as many directions as they have degrees, and all the ones in between; and life is a blank wall into which each person must carve their own niche.
And what of the friendships that never have a chance-- pairs of people whose selves would fit like pieces of a jigsaw but they talk themselves out of talking to each other because of a wise friend’s musings about moving on and putting people behind you, or because Mommy said not to talk to strangers all those years ago?
And the black community, the LGBT community, religious minorities, and oppressed women have their advocates and always will... but who’s going to stand up for the could-haves? © 2016 Joshua SternReviews
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