when things go wrong....

when things go wrong.....

we lose our heart to control mind to overcome

our mind protects from the damage by her own ways of body with their purva vasanas(behaviour), when your budhi/heart doesnt get into control with right ways, then you havent changed at all, what you are you are the same, by birth,

But when in seconds or mins or a day how short it is it is better, and good and make you better person, regain get resilient, heart controls mind and says forgive me, i was wrong my mistake, and the other person within in a very short notice of in sec, min, day, relieves our pain by setting us free and says forgiven you, but dont repeat, are the only two entities or persons who are best and be called God. 

Else if how much longer you take you are away from godliness, and away from God, without changing your ways like a dog's tail neve be straightened how much ever we make it straight and leave. 

For me I have my best God, as usually in Hinduism there are 3 crore gods, so, who just makes and forgives me every time i do mistake but i never repeat unless it is very tough on me to forget and hurt him in my natural ways. i also say very instantly forgive me with khan pakadke touching his feet,  so he smiles, and kisses me.... 

For me, I have best mom in law, atthamma i would say, mother and aunt, is never ever gets so much of angry on me but little upset when i lose my patience, and shout like a senseless mutter, she makes me with nice coffee chat of poetry, why cant you be mild, because you look so beautiful in that mildness like me.. thats it i just get flattered and all my dirtiness of anger goes away with in a sec.. 

these two Gods are not with me, i would have ever drown in deep sea now in this life, these are two people who are with me forever and will be with me ever....

Jessy Y Jacob, 

just calling his first name too in my name from now on, as i am missing now so much.... 

Reviews

[Jibey]

When things go wrong it is good to seek forgiveness if we have been the cause - and then to move on... a new day, new hopes, new opportunities..

[JessyJacob]

If you say so people would change one wife or husband per day, in india normally wife husband both fight and if they dont fight they dont get come close in night, it is routine it is eastern culture. But in western how they cant wait fir things they keep on changing people. If we kkep on changjng we will be with no peole to live with then we hav to convert into gsy or lesbians like lgbtq. Then no kids only men to men touch or women to women touch no opening of male female snakes just same sexual uninon..

So i dont agree with you
Thsts why we hav less divorces in indian mentality people though not in all indians. People are westernizing.

God make wedding heavens we make our own hell of divorce then blame god you are not giving right person to me.

We both get angry and we calm down pretty quickly too.