who did what??

Family - where they should see who is right and wrong, and give guidance its not that over concerned which covers the eyes of right judgement , its a blind over blind. He should have been told, she came all the way for you how can you disregard her, what is her mistake, you are doing wrong,  by marrying her and then thinking of her(another) and testing patience not loving her, she is even ready to leave you for her, then why did you marry her, why did you love her thinking that she is the best for you, now you dont love her anymore, then it is the mistake of you Yay, you are doing wrong. you dont know what you want. I agree with Nau who is worried for a long term married life, and mom for his cries, and dad for his career if he dumps because of a lady then he is gonna ruin his career, so all three supported whatever he says and agreed. 

He - He should know what he needs, he cant keep on extracting  and exploiting until she brokes, he should have been in her shoes, and think what she did to him, did you love her, is it mere attraction, i know how you stop loving and how you create emotion to over think more, you just create life and death of people. Atleast kindness you should have shown on her thinking she came by leaving her son, she was crying for not sending the birthday gift and where she was loving you, you were having holiday leaving your mother and with rest of the family you have been enjoying. She didnt even know about it that you moved on and left her, she was blindly thinking that you are loving him. You should have given call to her, discuss with her, and see my problem is this and i cant do more than this. But you didnt, even though she cared for you, he blamed her saying she crushed daffodils,who crushed who every one knows. Your only wrong thing is you dont think of others, and you care for your things, no matter what others are going through. If you could think of others you would shine in you personal matters. RIght intention and behaviour will fecth good business with out any financial problems, after all this world is based on dharma and adharma, not bad which you think can win. 

She - current wife - she stepped on someone's life and place, she knows about me, she intentionally did wrong by marrying you, where she should have told you that, see you are doing wrong to her, you should marry her, she came for you by leaving her son, if Sahiba is there she should have told the same thing. Because she was not encouraging you and me that i have son. 

She - ala- she thinks she is doing good, and supports even though she is wrong, only to win, that is what people are copying and learning thinking that she is right, that is what he is learning, and his ways his friend copied and did same thing to her(me). She should have told yay, see you got married go to home, and be with her, you should not be with me, then she could have not gone to turiya. Now also she is not supporting her, commenting her, to her who she is treating her sister. 

He - friend - came as a protector but never known his bad intentions who he came for why he came for, cheated her, now regreting what he did, i can ignore your mistake but my responsibility is Him, and i love him, i cant love or need any other love. 

Me - I have loved him and still loving him, will not make him to do mistake, she should have gone and asked him and talked to him properly, she left for his will was her mistake, he to didnt feel necessary to talk to her, thinking she will bear and let her overcome. I have taken my x husband responsibility and made him nice being where he still cares for me, So i also want to make my decision to focus on you and care for you and do good for you, indeed you are supposed to do good for me. I have given birth to Eshan, he has better nature like bhaiyya and so matured and caring they both are alike, I want you to be like them and be nicer to all and outgrow in society and business. This is my new commitment i have taken on this valentines day for my love to you. 

I wish you happy valentines day to you all to be with your loved ones.