My Happy Family!!!!!!!

We are 4 siblings, Mummy and daddy. Its about how we have grown up with values given by my parents, and grand parents.

My family is very unique in having each with different mentality and risk takers for the happy sustainability of our family. 

Parents: Mother is very hard worker, does everything for us and father. She grew up in middle class family, with values given by her parents. She used to do lot of pooja, daily, for her kids and husband. We four siblings, always took care of her, and is continued, as she in old age cadre, enjoying with grand sons, and little cooking, as she is fond of cooking and prepares very delicious and varieties. 

MY father is little hard worker, with a disease of Alcoholic. But he is very caring person, when the time comes for kids to stretch, for their families. He is not that dominating, but helpful, in fighting, when it comes, very soon of harsh talking, he just calms down, feels sorry for what he had done and apologizes to his kids and wife. This simple wordings, "sorry for my rash behaviour", always makes me to love my daddy a little more each time, as he never advices, but makes the things right for their kids, just impresses alot. Because of this attitude, we siblings, always obeys him and his orders. 

With two different attitudes of my parents, we all four grew up in healthy environment, with nice character, and care for the family and society. 

Siblings: 1. Myself: I am the elder, being first in the family, it comes with birth, the responsibility, of her younger siblings. It was no that tough fro me to manage them, only the little sister, is naughty kind, with her playfulness, with little interest in study, which made me always to be at the back of her, to study, but little she is fierceless, that we both hit and fight each other, as she is taller to me, and with good muscle and bone strength, I used to loose fight, with lot of hurtings. But her intelligence of managing things are nice, and practical, with social knowledge and their mentalities. 

I was little sensitive, I like to study, was good at studies, and tried to manage Bachelors and masters, and worked for few companies, I got experience not in just one field of  chemical engineering,  but in different areas of it. I had an attitude of learning every day, and in anywhere, where I thought it will teach something new for me, all little experiences in different fields at different companies, I grew with knowledge and also experience, where the overseas experience, made also easy to get job offer in India too.

I have a very soft mentality, but also with seriousness, in few situations, that bother me, I like treat with respect others, when it is needed, but very soon loses my temper, when people intentionally do mistakes, and blames anyone. My hobbies include, Rangoli, net browsing, reading poetry and also like to cook new varieties. To me character is more important thing, which makes my attitude, towards myself, family, society and towards Nation-Earth, its like my dharma/righteousness, which made me self dignified. I like to fight for dignity of labour, which is main concern, towards capitalism and few private companies, where they are exploiting money and people, for their Selfishness. I really admire, people are innocent, to let them be uplifted, with my nature, people do respect me for that kind of attitude, where Bhagavad Gita, treat with respect yourself and Society too.

My favorite quotations, which made me like right now are: Dharmo rakshathi rakshitah, and Live and let live and one more, which completely changed my fateis "Nothing is Impossible".

I was little sensitive, I like to study, was good at studies, and tried to manage Bachelors and masters, and worked for few companies, I got experience not in just one field of  chemical engineering,  but in different areas of it. I had an attitude of learning every day, and in anywhere, where I thought it will teach something new for me, all little experiences in different fields at different companies, I grew with knowledge and also experience, where the overseas experience, made also easy to get job offer in India too.

I have a very soft mentality, but also with seriousness, in few situations, that bother me, I like treat with respect others, when it is needed, but very soon loses my temper, when people intentionally do mistakes, and blames anyone. My hobbies include, Rangoli, net browsing, reading poetry and also like to cook new varieties. To me character is more important thing, which makes my attitude, towards myself, family, society and towards Nation-Earth, its like my dharma/righteousness, which made me self dignified. I like to fight for dignity of labour, which is main concern, towards capitalism and few private companies, where they are exploiting money and people, for their Selfishness. I really admire, people are innocent, to let them be uplifted, with my nature, people do respect me for that kind of attitude, where Bhagavad Gita, treat with respect yourself and Society too.

My favorite quotations, which made me like right now are: Dharmo rakshathi rakshitah, and Live and let live. 

First Sister: She is beautiful, with similar mentality of caring family, parents and siblings, whihc made her nice nature, where everyone of us used to like her, sometimes, she just sacrifices, and neglects herself and tries to help others. She is smart and hard worker in studies, got a good job, working in software field.

But thing, is socially he is conscious and caring, but being exploited is one of her weakness. With lotof patience, to fight for her reasons, with family, and fearless, in public communications, grown with good nature of forgiving.

 

Second Sister: She is tall with nice brownish skin tone, active, talks with clarity, knows how to behave with each, tries to care her sisters and family, nicely, by being strong, unlike like we three, very smart in fighting for the survival. Always ready to hit me, as if I am treating them strictly. Very good at selecting things in shopping. Though gets dare on me to fight, but still listens to me.

 

Brother: He was pampered by each of one us, being chubby, he was looking cute when he was 1-3yrs. I have seen him from birth to till now, raised with hard working nature, in studies, and extracurricular activities such as games and karate(brown belt), he missed the black belt, it was from guidance that he learnt, I wanted to be a good at studies and campus interviews. He also respects us, and just listens, without much arguing. I was directing and three of them listened, and was happy with what I used to tell them, still they respect and fear of me. But he is little shy, before elders, and in society, where he needs to talk without fear. Its only kind of being young, he used to was lovable in family. We call him, as Areyy, ra, at the end and beginning of name, these little words, makes us together with bond of love. I know how we call a person, also makes the person to be loved and lovable to us.

 

This is all about my family.

 

 

Author's Note

Its written only to revive, how far we are growing, with feelings and doing things, right from when we were little to grew up till now, in everyone's their individual family, after getting married.

Reviews

[JessyJacob]

Seeing, curently few families, who are not hooked to each other, changing to bad, neglecting and also ignoring intentionally, thought reiterating with basis of what they are, this chapter was written, not to forget them who they were before(Little impressions they made me not to forget them), and situations and circumstances changed them,

Again trying to hook all together as nice beautiful, with different colors with little darkness of selfish and also selfless, colored garland to my God.