Invisible Loyalty

Like invisible loyalties can pass down beliefs, characteristics and life choices.  
Trauma can also be a type of loyalty that is passed down. Let us think of the pattern and how it is transformed when a trauma is completely processed. Then it will change from something that is unconsciously controlling our actions towards a direction that causes us to re-experience the trauma or stay within a victim role into a strength, something that was overcame and conquered. By working through it we succeed into the next chapter of being, and open the next world of experiences, free from control, as long as we are able to examine and look within ourselves and our bloodline's stories, and take courage, walk through the guilt and the shame of being happy and picking something for ourselves, we can find happiness.