Every child dream to be an adult. They want to dictate the
house like their father, they want to roam like their father and mother and especially
want to life independent like their parents. Being an adult is to some point
very amazing because an adult can vote, can drive car and is able to lead life
without orders but the most stressful thing is responsibility which adults must
face every day. We only see the positive part of being adult but not the
negative part, humans have a habit to look at the positive and the luxury but
not the negative part. No one wants a life of pain. Our parents must look after
our fees for school and money for household purpose and some extra money for
useless purpose, for you it might be especially useful, but it is useless. I
remember once I asked my father for a watch of brand SEIKO and he gave me but later
I realised that it is useless because my actual purpose of watch is just to see
time not the brand. Fathers are often regarded as a “MAN OF SACRIFICE”. They try give the most expensive thing to you
which they did not get from their own father. Being an adult allows you to make
your own life which give you freedom to roam with your girlfriends, but it also
makes your journey stressful. At this age you need to find a new job and look
after your family members because they consider that you are now capable enough
to feed the family. Many people make their life stable by managing their
problems but those who cannot either destroy their own career or commit
suicide. As per the current report, every day in the world 110 to 120 people
commit suicide because of loss of career. Being an adult is very risky thing,
you cannot lead an joyful life like a child and the most important thing is
that you will not be to share your pain and feelings with anyone because when
you become an adult your total life changes. You do not get helpful friends;
you will have friends but for benefits. They will try to make out their work
from you, you will not get a friend who will look after you. You will become a
part of the corporate world where everything is done for benefits and profits. I
will also enter that stage after two years; I will also face the same thing because
the total system works on this process and you cannot stop it. You are safe if you are a child but the time
you become an adult your life becomes hell. Now it is up to you, which life you
like the most, child or Adult.