MIND OF MINE

Just my day to day views on things

Another day of my life and I can’t help but think, why people can’t accept how people are. The main problem with us Indians is the we are shackled with our mindsets not cultures or religion. Its never the culture that tell people how they should be or what we should wear or what we should be choosing, It’s the f*****g mindset . The most classic example being “WOMEN” I seriously don’t want to bring in feminism, but Hindu mythology is fully depended on women . POWER- its signified with Goddess Durga , WISDOM- with Goddess Saraswati , WEALTH �" with Goddess Laxmi , my point is if women are used to depict such important virtues of life , then why are the same women afraid to be let given the freedom to travel alone or at night? , why are then women not sent to school or are married of to strangers ( arranged marriage is weird , training them not to talk to any stranger & then marring them off to one ) its not just something that happens to women ,but men too. Becuz according to the society you need to get married to be settled and be happy, you need to have kids to be happy , you need to make a proper job to be happy, where a person is only judged on the basis of his academics and what not , My question to all these people are �"WHO THE F**K ARE YOU TO DECIDE WHAT KEEPS ME HAPPY?. Happiness comes not from people it come from within, and rn I am trying to exactly do that . I am ig burned-out I am have lost the willpower but yk the best part about me . I can’t accept problems and move on many may say that’s the reason why I tend to remain disturbed but I will do everything in my power to fight with it , and that’s what people need to do . Its no point blaming anyone for your situation or your circumstances. The society will always find something wrong in you, but it’s no point blaming them .  cuz we are the society . Society is always used in a very stereotypical manner but , when people fight back against crime that’s society too, when people try to make amendments to governments decisions by holding rallies that’s society too , celebrating all festivals all a family is also a society . Its is the mindset that needs to change not the culture nor the religion or people. And its never too late to fix anything. We can start by stopping this whole blame game that we initiate whenever a problem arises . My grandfather said something that had really struck me “ before pointing at someone , remember you have 3 fingers pointing to yourself” being a kid I failed to understand this philosophy , so I asked him what it meant, he just vaguely said “the index is to person your blaming , the rest are towards you and the thumb is for the circumstances” . Then it seemed a puzzle to me but now I get a clear picture. There maybe one reason for which a person is responsible for a situation, but there if you introspect your guts will  say how much you are responsible as well that’s the 3 fingers pointing towards you and the thumb its for the circumstances , “people aren’t always bad the circumstances are” in short be responsible  for yourself.

         And the moment you stop living for the people , who don’t even matter to you .Trying to fit yourself into a something which you don’t even want to be a part of . just be happy . Cuz happiness is hard to find in just chaos .   Just pause for a moment and breathe in the essence of life .  (wear mask while breathing in open ofc)

 

                                                                                -ZEUS                             

Author's Note

IGNORE THE GRAMMARRRRRR ;)