God is not to be mocked!

A Girlfriend, can have 2 meanings to it, that i know of
~ A Female who is a friend of either sexes.
~ A Female who is exclusively dating a Male

A Boyfriend has only 1 meaning that i know of
~ A Male who is exclusively dating a Female
i guess that you can use it as a term of i have a boy who is a friend but that is a loose comment.

A Fiance has only 1 meaning that i know of
~ It is someone of either sex Male or Female, who has been proposed too by the opposite sex.
~ Example A male asking a Female or a Female asking a Male. (asking is the part that makes you a Fiance!!) and once asked you shall remain so!

Until!!

A Husband has only 1 meaning that i know of
~ It is a Female who has married a Male and are living together in Holy Matrimony AKA (Marriage)
~ (Then you have a ceremony that pledges legally that in God's eyes you are married).

A Wife has only 1 meaning that i know of
~ It is a Male who has married a Female and are living together in Holy Matrimony AKA (Marriage)
~ (Then you have a ceremony that pledges legally that in God's eyes you are married

NO WHERE does it say that a Male and Female who are dating one another, are known as Husband and Wife.

I guess for me it puts a burr in my pants when i see people say that someone is either their Husband or Wife before the ceremony in which makes you indeed... a Husband and Wife. I guess in world teminology it's ok to live like this and talk like this but when 1 is a Christian shouldn't you grow up and get to know the terminology....correctly... as like in the bible where it says babies eat of the mothers' (milk) and then once growing you change to .... bla bla bla in my own words age appropriate food... This is where it bugs me ...
People you know this if you are of Faith and the Word. As a Christian in the beginning you get fed words and scripture and learn like a infant, then you grow in the word and knowledge of God and eat of (learn) more as a toddler in Christ if i may so. Then as you grow further and further your meat gets more and more filling and you know the difference between right and wrong. What i am trying to say is people of Faith need to grow up and continue learning the ways God speaks of.
Grow up and live like a Christian, if it says you are Husband and Wife by ceremony only then one is Husband and Wife by Ceremony, not because you choose to live in sin and play married. That in itself is a whole other ball of wax. I am not writing about that but of the terminology people use in everyday life.
I used to be married, I was once a Wife, I was called a Wife by the world and by God. I was worldly.. called My Life and although sweet and enduring as it was. I miss that but in the Eyes of God I was correctly living it. I was his Wife, He was my Husband.
When girlfriend/boyfriend start calling each other Husband and Wife and they are truthfully not, while .... living together are in itself mocking God. Slapping him in the face. As harsh as that may seem there is no other way of looking at it. You are mocking God and God's ways.
Do you not think so? How do you think God feels and what he is holding back from you. He has so many plans and hopes for your future marriage and life that he is holding them back because he has given you something that needs to be cherished and respected but he can't trust you with it because you are mocking him and his laws.
I think it is fine and dandy is someone meets someone and then 8 weeks later gets married if you are of Faith, because it is then from God that the union is given. 8 Weeks in the world ways no, i don't think it is... it may end up working out and that is fine but otherwise no. If you are dating someone and not married then you are none other than boyfriend and girlfriend. If you are married and calling each other husband and wife then that is ok. It is what you are. But if you are claiming and living to be of Faith then one needs to live as tho he/she is of Christ. Instead of Mocking God. cause God doesn't like to be mocked. In other words Don't claim to be Husband and Wife unless you are in the Eyes of God!

Author's Note

My personal friend asked me why i was upset when she read this & i came back to her & said.....I just had earlier seen a comment about a relationship & i was immediatley spoken too about how wrong it was for God to be mocked. Marriage is something sacred & is not something that should be toyed with. Intentionally or not. All i know is that my spirit was shaken when i read it, that & it was conveyed to me like. All i can say is it was, i don't know how to say it. I was immediatly told I am not to be mocked. ok this is what was said to me. I am not to be mocked, i am sorry you had to read that, it is giving single woman & men a false impression about what marriage is to convey. Marriage is holy & sanctified. It is an act of love Granted & acknowledged by me God. It is a false impression the world has on what marriage is. Marriage is not make believe games like playing house. It is a real thing & needs to be respected. What the person is doing is misleading himself & disrespecting himself and the Woman he is he with. In no way do i want this & I am not to be mocked Christian or not