Breaking out of the comfort zoneA Story by Ittai Bryan Matthew Nyamawuya-MasangaHow to expand your horizons from where you stand. Stretching yourself to the limit and discovering new talents and skills.Breaking out of the comfort zone First, we try to explain what the comfort zone is by differentiating it from the growth zone and the panic zone. These three zones can be further broken down to different stages and phases that one grows through in their lives. Panic zone. Comfort zone Growth zone Let us see how you can pick up your game. 1. Start small Start with baby steps. Yes dream big but make practical plans. Have clear intentions. You do not want to seem like a drunk, moving in a zigzag. You want to get somewhere so start by pinpointing that somewhere. Have an end game. Do not be hasty. Be content with gradual change. It is easier when it is slow but quite a
hassle when it is rapid. Chew only what
you can. 2. Understand that it is ok to fail. Do not be afraid of failure. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. Fear is one passion that renders you either hopeless and demotivate you or triggers the panic mode. Let yourself fail. Most inventors and achievers had to fail before they got it right. It is the fear that will prohibit you from venturing into the uncharted territory. To that effect, take the leap of faith. Ignore the fear; just friggin do it. 3. Have faith and confidence. Use past experiences as evidence that you can succeed on any mission you set out to fulfill. You went to school without the faintest idea what the Avogadro constant was yet by end of school you knew how to use it in your calculations. The Avogadro constant was then an uncharted territory that you ventured into and conquered. You met your lover as a stranger but today you celebrate years of togetherness. However unfamiliar the territory seems, remember you can succeed. You possess the ability to learn new skills and adapt to changing environments. Stretch yourself to the limit. It is hard to break out of the comfort zone when you are always second-guessing yourself.
There you have it. Whatever venture you have in mind, whatever idea you want to act out. Do it right now. Time waits for no one. You are agitated at the way things are and you feel you can do something to change the status quo? Why wait? Start now. © 2014 Ittai Bryan Matthew Nyamawuya-MasangaAuthor's Note
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