upon relating to others

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People are so mean.

the goblin always liked the other posters here, saying "...I am here because I have a great faith in this forum and those members whom I know now as being both more original and accepting than some others here, where it's this laissez faire which really wins out in the end, for you see how others are to you is not your decision is it, though how you are to others is your decision entirely, and doesn't that somehow reflects you to yourself by what you decide there, just you don't need to be like others..."

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I find quiet hard to relate people like here and also in real life. I always feel from other people they try to win over me. Like every response on my writing was like I like your writing but they,don't explained why . Through my 7 years what I am here. I feel related like 3 or 4 people and rest better no comnent. Anyway very,good,writing cause its raise,question how we actually think about others and they,writing.

[fleamailman]

"...agreed, simply I don't try to change you, where if I did then it would only turn out as loss for me, but why though..." as the goblin then looked down at his hands for moment before smiling "...because each time I correct you is when each time your writings become more like mine, till finally we're the same and I'm reading myself in what you write and that defeats my purpose, so instead I let you write from the bedrock of your own experience only hoping that you'll note why the way you write something either works for you or doesn't work for you...", in fact, the goblin hated, yet understood too, those false fruits of perfectionism, and how becoming a "clone of perfectionism" was an easy shortcut to begin with till the day one realized that one had lost one's individuality in the process..."

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You are completely right. It's all about tribism to have all people on your side and thry,are same like you. It's not just here but also in real world. Every day is for me challenge how I keep balance in between to live,with humans and don't losing myself. Sometimes is best way to just leave people alone. Some people reply on my,writing too bad grammar and too chaotic. They even tell me . My writing is shalow grave etc. I don't reply them anynore. We are born into patterns of social behaviour and rules and we follow them without asking. Only few brave ones following own way.

[fleamailman]

"...next time if someone puts down your writing down just them to link you to something of theirs that has a massive readership, and when they don't know just know that they don't know how to build a readership for all their expertise, also I'm like you, I make many mistakes on the first posting, it's why store those post I did that I liked and then when the time is right I hew them into something more me to my pen to repost them anew..."

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I find here on this,Web site . Here is mostly one sided reviews they only see bad side or just they say it's great. I think both are wrong. I don't mind if someone point out on my mistakes. But if that person attack my personality like our famouse Dave . I don't even want communicate with this kind of people.I am now more focus on my writing I Re writing each piece 3 times and still changing structure and meaning. Thanks for great post.

[fleamailman]

"...naah, don't worry about poet..." smiled the goblin who seemed to remember Dave's antics from way back, continuing "...instead continue as you are slowly building up both your readership and your persona too, remember that nothing stops you from becoming known if you are both persistent, imaginative, and outstanding, yet most writertypes are that opposite in that they give up, they follow set norms, and they don't stand out, their choice but not mine here, where it's like painting you simply have to paint in your own way and stick to it..."

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This is very well said. About readership I don't know if is just mine wiev. But seems,to me we,don't get too much new writers here. Mostly they just stay for,few weeks. I can see in new,writing same old names . Maybe I said before all my writerscafe,friends left this place . I think it will br,also good if we,have our,forum back .cause,this can help new,writers to introducem them self. Above it all I am now happy,with my,writing . I thing I kake,now,right from for my,ideas. All the best to your goblin.