I know the feeling. Personally I think some things are best left unanswered, we often don't really want to know why because it just makes it worse. What really counts is how you treat other people as a result of these experiences - you can either let them consume you and make you into someone you won't like or you can let them mould you into something better.
The heart had a limit. Can feel only one desire at a time. I tell my daughters. Walk easy into a relationship. Best know what you will get. A lot of question are answered with time. A wise person learn from mistakes. A excellent poem.
Coyote
i think the answer is because we love and love can hurt.. i have questions too .. amd no answers.. i enjoyed this thoughtful read that causes one to think.
chloe
Life is a Balancing act. Fate or God, either or, serves up positives and negatives into our path so that we will drift from one to the other and learn from both. Pain, Love, Anger, Joy..all of the emotions are tools that our minds and our hearts have created to deal with the swings of the scales.
There are times that well all feel like life or another human as trampled upon us, leaving us in the dirt. We cry, we lament, we fear the future, for it becomes a great unknown. Yet, it is also during these times that we learn the most and have the ability to rise higher than we ever had been in the past.
Valid questions that many people ask every day. Just remember that it's not the light at the end of the tunnel that's important..It's the bright light that shine's within you that can make all the difference.
You have plumbed the depths of
despair. You have searched for love and
it isnt there, but you have touched your
readers everywhere. Why ? Because we
have all searched in vain. We have all been
there.
Your insight has opened up the hearts of
your readers and laid them bare.
That did not just happen because your
readers have suffered the same , it has happened
because you touched them with dramatic
empathy, with sincerety and compassion.
A fine poem. Yes, these are strong emotions. I'm sure they are rooted deep in our biology. They are inextractable facets of our being. Once one falls in love, the object of our love becomes imprinted on us. And while it is true that we can fall out of love, while we are in love this passion can drive us through all the extremes of Man's abilities. We can conceive and execute the finest art and we can conceive and execute the most brutal of crimes. What vehicles of passion we are.
There is nothing really special about me, other than the fact that I love to read books, and I am currently writeing my first book ( I finaley have a title for it) I AM TERRIFIED OF CLOWNS!!!!!!, so d.. more..