Being the Strong Woman

Being the Strong Woman

A Poem by crystalxestrada
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Nobody really understands that as the strong, independent woman you're being... sometimes you get tired.

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People tend to use you as a shield 

people pretend that maybe u could heal

as if you had super powers, or that you are made of steel


always have to be the one to hold it down 

and don’t even think you could have the chance to even frown 

you have no right to be down 


you’re stronger remember? 

even when it’s as cold as December 

people expect you to warm them up like the hot chocolate they drink mid November 


you don’t get sad, you don’t get upset 

you understand even when expectations aren’t met 

sorry this, sorry that, always sorry for promises not kept


people come to you when they’re hurting 

use you, leave you, and treat you like you were the burden 

your only significance was when YOU weren’t hurtin'

 

positive through all that hurts the most 

I’d even act like I understand you when you go ghost 

“don’t worry, I get it we all need our time” when I know that’s true but where’s your time when I need mine? 


nobody knows, it all hurts 

people just assume you’ve been through the most 

even when times are painful and you cry yourself to sleep most 

you understand that your only job is to be there for those that need you most 


I’m a tool to use, to fix you, help you, and piece you together 

give you pieces of me like it’s nothing because “I got myself all put together” 

I can take it, ill be there for whenever 


because I’m stronger, remember? 

I don’t hurt

I can help you  

ima always be there for you remember? 

I understand 

I got it all put together

I can take it

I can try harder

I can do better remember?


all these expectations of me, I will always succeed 

until these expectations take the best of me 

are taking the best of me, but nobody knows that it’s slowly finishing me


but I'm stronger remember? 

my job isn’t done until you’re done with me, it all seems so clever

but it’ll all pay off when ur hurting and need me to put you together 


hope you got your umbrella for this stormy weather 

your on your own b***h, see if you can put YOURSELF back together 

© 2021 crystalxestrada


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Wow this is a pretty strong emotional piece of poetry and indeed raw in its truth. I can't help but respect and appreciate the honesty and tone of this piece. When one speaks from the heart others listen. This is a very relatable poem because of that emotion. Wonderful poem Crystal thank you for sharing.

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crystalxestrada

3 Years Ago

Thank you! It means a lot you view it this way, you're so appreciated thank you for taking the time .. read more



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I love it♥️ When feeling /writing comes from the heart you can transmit every single word

Posted 3 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Wow this is a pretty strong emotional piece of poetry and indeed raw in its truth. I can't help but respect and appreciate the honesty and tone of this piece. When one speaks from the heart others listen. This is a very relatable poem because of that emotion. Wonderful poem Crystal thank you for sharing.

Posted 3 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

crystalxestrada

3 Years Ago

Thank you! It means a lot you view it this way, you're so appreciated thank you for taking the time .. read more

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Added on November 13, 2021
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crystalxestrada
crystalxestrada

Irvine, CA



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Hi! My name is Crystal, a bit about me is that I love to be able to express myself in the rawest way I can that is true to me and to others. A lot of the time, what I write about are feelings I was go.. more..

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