Happiness is Sacrifice.

The continuation of my previous blog The Path Of The Right Action and the next step in the adventure of seeking idealism.

People want to be happy. They always work hard to gain happiness. None of us wants sadness or grief. Tears are forbidden in our minds but then too we cannot stop the flow of tears. They just flow out of our eyes into the deep hole in our heart as river flows into deep depth of ocean. The deep hole is a metaphor for the in-completion we have in our life. That in-completion is filled by people we care about, our comrades, our friends, our family. Each one of them has a place in our heart and in our life. The significance of these people in our lives is nothing but providing feelings to us. What would we feel if we are totally lonely. Feelings are dependent on people around us. But we also don't want the feelings that make us feel negative. We yearn for positivity but due to the fear of negativity and loss we become pessimist and are never truly happy.

Happiness is truly sacrifice. But a sacrifice that is made by us to benefit us is not a sacrifice at all. Each time we make a sacrifice and it makes us sad then that is our loss. The loss of a thing which makes us happy even when we have lost the control over that specimen is true sacrifice and hence gives us true happiness.

Sacrifice is nothing but Karma. If we perform our Karma with all that we have got we will make sacrifices and hence gain happiness. For the feeling of happiness it is not necessary to try to achieve it. Setting goals is good but these goals become desire. When happiness becomes desire then its for sure that we have chosen a wrong path. Happiness should always be sacrifice and not desire. Sacrifice is truly doing your own work and following the path of right action. We need people but these people are a part of universe, they are bonded to us by the means which universe has decided. It is necessary to feel these bonds but never to gain sadness if we lose them. If it gives us sadness then it is truly just a desire of our heart which we lost. Sacrifice can never give sadness. If something you called sacrifice and it makes your heart cry then it was your desire which you couldn't achieve.

Perfection is love. Love doesn't happen to a person. Love is a state of life that you achieve through that specific person which we call the one. Love is the path which we have to follow.
But firstly before understanding love, understanding sacrifice is important.
More on "love" later.....

Author's Note

Its just something that I think and my thinking which is formed by reading many of the books.