Slip between the curtain

There is a very thin line between love and hate

Love and hate while being completely different emotions are not so far from each other. Infact there so close that one can even hate someone and love them at the exact same time. The feelings are completely differnt one a burning and destructive detest of an indavdual the other a sensual gentle but powerful feeling of the upmost care.

So how are they even remotly simalar you ask?

Well lets start with the obvious many people no longer talk to those they once loved, and not because they've simply lost touch but more because that gentle feeling has slipped beneath the curtain that concealed it. And that love has now become twisted and broken and turned into a hate for the pain the indavudaul caused and a some what comfort to there abondonment. The way i see it love is nothing but hate behind a sliver curtain, blinded by a feeling we cant quite understand we follow it desperatly because while we are blind, it is gentle soft loving and we see no fault in the indavdual that grants us a hand thru the world. But once that indavdual leaves you , defenceless and alone our natural instict is to protect ourselves and what better way to do so than to remove the feeling of connection and make distancing and forgetting so much easier by creating a burning and uncontrollable hatrid.

Me ive only been inlove once and no the silver curtain is still tightly wrapped around my eyes, i cant see round it nor under it but im very aware it is there. I mean have you ever had a bf/gf that all your friends warn you about constantly , or tell you things that you cant belive. Even if there true you refuse to see the truth because of the white viel of love, the innocent protective service it serves to that of the person you are infactuated with. Its dangerous like any loose bit of matreal drapped over your eyes, the possiblity of walking into things, tripping over things even tripping over the cloth itself.

And now i come to the strange but often used phrase. Its a love hate relationship. Now in all sense's of the phrase it very much is, how many times in any relationship have you wanted to physically strangle your other half, or burst in tears because of something they've done to you. But still if someone said leave them , or there a prick you would turn around and say i love them despite the feeling of hatrid and pain at that current moment.

So people.. before you jump head first into that curtain take a little peak behind, because once your behind it it sticks like glue, and you wont be able to see the truth , the hate and the inner demons until much further down the line where your to buried in teh pain to even kick yourself.

Author's Note

lol sorry

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[Jibey]

"the white veil of love, the innocent protective service it serves to that of the person you are infatuated with" - indeed, love seldom sees imperfection - think how parents look on their baby and think it is completely flawless...

But you are so right that women in particular, are capable of clinging to their love for the most brutish and inconsiderate men, because there is something in them that always believes they can bring the person around, make them different. I suppose it is what a mother's love is all about. Wonderful but painful.

You have learnt much through your pain...