She wasn't there when her son was born. She didn't even meet him until he was six months old, but the moment she saw him, his tiny fingers reached past hers and wrapped themselves tightly around her heart. For her, there was no doubt about the extend of her love for this little boy no matter how many times other people tried to tell her differently. They say the bond between mother and child is the strongest thing on the earth. Is that bond, though, forged by blood? Or by unconditional, unrestrained love?
She never listened when they warned her that having her own children would change her feelings. That the bond with her self-adopted son would fade as the bond with her blood children grew. But who are they to speak when they have never felt a love like hers? She has three children now. One adopted, two by blood, and all three equal in her eyes. They all mean the entire world to her and life would be unimaginable without any one of them.
Why is it that people shun the things they can't explain? If they can't fathom this kind of love, they believe it doesn't exist. It must be impossible. No, you'll never know it until you've felt it for yourself. So why judge? Any mother like her would agree. The problem is that they are few and far between. Its the people around her that think she's crazy. How could she possibly love them all the same? How could she be the first one to notice the little changes in his eyes, even before his relatives by blood? No. How can she possibly have the insight to know whats wrong with him before anyone else? Can a mother's intuition surpass the link of blood? "No," they say. But it has. Don't deny her her right because you do not understand. Don't push her away because you are unable to fathom her immense capability to love. You know nothing. For you, it may be impossible. But a mother's bond is forged by strength, love, and spirit. Never by blood alone.