Something my father wrote.

so true

Everything you do has a consequence, good or bad. The sad thing of it all is time can’t be reversed, words can’t be taken back.. Wounds heal, but the scars remain, only to show their ugly face when you least expect them. Pain is pain, sometimes you have to embrace it, understand it, move forward from it. To allow a wound to fester and not treat it, will only make the wound grow, taking over, engulfing you.

Your life is, your life. Within this journey of life you come across and even entangle yourself with others and this interaction will affect those individuals and yourself. Either by passing on information, love, hate, fear, caring ,understanding, knowledge, sympathy. You choose how to do this, but there is a cause and effect. Sometimes the best lessons learned are the most painful, and if you don’t learn from them of course you will repeat them.

Your actions define yourself and define how people view you.