it’s Time to Move On

It happens to you slowly as you grow.  You discover more about who you are and what you want, and then you realize that there are changes you need to make.  The lifestyle you have been living no longer fits.  The people you have known forever no longer, see things the way you do.  So you cherish all the great memories, but find yourself moving on..

Sometimes we avoid experiencing where we are because we have developed a belief, based on past experiences, that it is not where we should be or want to be.  But the truth is, where you are now is exactly where you need to be to get to where you want to go tomorrow, everything from your past does not belong in your present moving on doesn't mean you completely forget the wonderful things from your past, it just means that you find a positive way of surviving without them  in your present

Your past has given you the strength and wisdom you have today, so celebrate it stop focusing on old problems and things you don’t want in your future the more you think about them, the more you attract what you fear into your everyday experiences �" you become your own worst enemy.

You can spend hours, days, weeks, months, or even years sitting alone in a dark room, over-analyzing a situation from the past, trying to put the pieces together, and justifying what could have or should have happened.  Or you can just leave the pieces in the dark and walk out the front door into the sunlight to get some fresh air.

You may blame everyone else and think, “Poor me!  Why do all these crappy things keep happening to me?”  But the only thing those scenarios all have in common is YOU.  And this is good news, because it means YOU alone have the power to change things, or change the way you think about things.  There is something very powerful and liberating about surrendering to change and embracing it �" this is where personal growth and evolution reside.

Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, something they need, or something they thought was meant to be.  But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future opportunities.  Embrace these opportunities.  Enter new relationships and new situations, knowing that you are venturing into unfamiliar territory.  Be ready to learn, be ready for a challenge, and be ready to experience something or meet someone that just might change your life forever.

If you want to fly and move on to better things, you have to give up the things that weigh you down �" which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.

Author's Note

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