marriage

for someone who is struggling to save a marriage

Marriage has been a

Sacrament and an institution.

How can I share your pain?

How far can I understand?

I know life has been too unfair.

 

I am not good with

Advices that concerns

With the heart.

It is my weakness

And waterloo at that.

 

But then as I see you,

Struggling to be strong,

To face the hurts and pains.

Pity is not what I feel for you.

But admiration.

 

For the courage

You have to deal with day by day,

For the two beautiful children

Who love and cherish you

You have been strong.

 

Stronger than I was before,

Fool that I can be,

I don’t believe in the

Sanctity of marriage

More than ever.

Reviews

[Onlyme]

Truth is marriage in the modrrn world is easy come divorced tomorrow. And that sad. Your sentiments lovely but reality for most married not, they cheat, lie and so on. If your very luck it will last between 2 people who believe in vows and love.

[sette]

and that is the time when we call them so lucky

[Eiram]

Kung hindi man success sa una, malay mo sa padalawa, dahil sabi lahat naman daw may katapat,ibibigay siya sa tamang panahon, dapat hindi mawawala iyong pakiramdam na pagmamahal at pagtitiwala.

[sette]

idealistic pa rin ang pananaw mo sa buhay naayon kc sa edad at experience yan ok lang po yan

[Eiram]

Medyo, pero minsan kung iisipin meron-meron pa rin makikita ka na may 2nd chances, iyon iba na nakailan muna bago nakita si mr right,iyon hindi mo akalain na may hahabol pa sa kasalan.at kahit hindi man lahat sa kasal pero sila pa rin pala sa dulo.siguro kung sa suwerte medyo mailap siya, wala naman sigurong malas,pero sabi nga hindi rin maiaasa sa suwerte palagi, pag paguran at ingatan, o kaya naman kung hindi sa iyo at may nakalaan sa iyo mas tumpak iyon na lang pagtuunan.

[Eiram]

Hindi man lahat nauuwi sa kasal pero ang maikasal sa taong mahal mo at magsama ng habang buhay ay isang maganda at masayang experience ng isang tao.Pero ang importante kasal man o hindi ang dalawang nagmamahalan, sa hirap at saya, sakit o till death do as part wika nga

[sette]

tama ka jan kaya lang di lahat sinuswerte

[Jimmy Yetts]

The wedded have exchanged vows; given their solemn word before God.
Serious business!

[sette]

it is so true my friend

[Christy the Poetic Hear..]

Very nice and full of deep truths!!! Good writing!!!

[sette]

thank you for a warm review

[Annette Pisano-Higley]

Very cute picture and very profound thoughts. Marriage and any other long-term relationship truly tests the mind, heart, body and soul. As your eloquent and contemplative words well-describe the hurt and pain of another, It is clear that you have felt disillusioned by failed marriages. That is so understandable. It is so touching to see that you have such a good heart and that you reach out to help and console others. You don’t need experience to lend your heart to a friend. I hope you keep your heart open to developing bonds of love, marital,or not. Lovely verses, flow, honesty, sincerity. Brava!

[sette]

thanks my friend i can feel her pain

[Gypsy Warrior Queen]

How hard it is to struggle in any part of life...how great of you to think of others in this plight. I believe in marriage but I also believe it's not for everyone. Thank you for sharing and showing us the empathy of another.

[sette]

thank you for a wonderful review

[Dave]

Sette - life offers very few guarantees the institution of marriage is one of them. Two people come together and vow to love, honor and obey each other. So much can happen along the way, I wish I could say I had always been true to those promises . Despite my failings I have been blessed with the love of my life who has managed to overlook my shortcomings for just about 56 wonderful years.

Take care - Dave

[sette]

and that is where i should say lucky you dave for having that wonderful woman in your life

[Dave]

AMEN to that!

[Pete]

interesting write. sadly, many no longer believe in the sanctity of it as a sacrament & institution. marriage has become like everything else in a disposable society. when things get rough and don't go our way we toss it out and maybe get another. made me think ... :)

[sette]

yes totally true