The Child Of Many Tears

The Child Of Many Tears

A Poem by Aspiring Angel
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Just soul searching

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The Child Of Many Tears


Oh my darling Joseph
Why are you so angry with me?

I look at you and weep
For the little guy
That lit my heart
With only a thought of you

It breaks my heart to find us
To be this way

We have always had a very
Special bond you and I

I have held you closely
In my hugs since you were
Three months old

Always so happy and joyful
Lighting every heart
You met along your way

My heart aches to
See that part of you leaving



I do not want to be the one
To always have to tell you no ...

I want to be only Grandma to you
The Grandma that has brag writes
And always gets the bestest smiles

Your memories are now forming of me

I so wish that they could be
Of this three years past
Where you dropped in on poet's page
To bring your uplifting joy
In little adventures of your busy day

You made so many people so very happy

Now you have so much fun
Playing mind games with Grandma
That I hardley recognize the little boy
Who just "Dropped in"



So much of you I no longer understand

Even poor Buddy has learned
To try and stay away
He does not understand either

I worry that you will be bitten
And yet if you were
It would be deserved

Why have you declared war?



Most would say it is a phase
That you will quickly grow out of

They do not see the cloud that
Passes over your angelic face



You look directly at me and do
What you know is exactly
The opposite of what you should do
 
Hour after hour of constant battle
Leaves Grandma just wishing
For our time for the day
To come to its end



Our battle of 'Wills' is putting me
Where I do not want to belong
And always the question
Of what has caused the drastic change

Too many hours
Of what is not truly home
Perhaps the cause?

Mommy tries but sometimes
I think she passifies you
To take the easier road
And when you do not get
The same from me ...

You are NOT a happy camper



Or is perhaps the cause
Because your vocabulary
Is very limited

You are a carbon of your Mommy
And I know what lies ahead for you
Praying that your life will be easier

You try so hard to be understood
And time after time of the same
Words spoken and still not understood ...
God help me but my patience wears thin



Joseph
What would you tell Grandma?

If you could understand me
And I could understand you
Could you tell me what is wrong
So I can fix it?

You explode in fits of rage
When you do not get your own way
And the physical struggle to
Make you give in to the idea that
Grandma is boss begins

Again most would say
"He is just being a three year old."

Again ...
I would say to you
You do not see the cloud
That is made evident



I have seen this cloud before Joseph
Upon the face that you call Daddy
And it scares me to see it at times
Finds itself to your expressions
As well

Your way or Hell to pay
So much now our days

Pehaps you do not understand
The meaning of the word 'Bully'
And yet you make its meaning
Very clear to me



Who was once Joseph is slipping away
And it breaks my heart to see you go

I have tried everything
And it leaves my heart weary
And wondering
What the next day will bring

Will it be Good Boy Joseph I will see?

You are getting harder and harder to find
As so am I



And so the war continues
Without perhaps neither side
Understanding the true why's

The battle must soon be over
For one side tires of the war

I love you Joseph unconditionally
But please try to help Grandma
Not weep for the little boy
I now see so seldom

Grandma

November 12, 2008

 


Lullabye For A Stormy Night
Artist
Vienna Teng



© 2008 Aspiring Angel


Author's Note

Aspiring Angel
Just a little weary, ya think? LOL :(

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I will try not interject opinion here; I am a parent of a four yr old, and have raised, as a step parent, two boys. Broken homes and genes carry great weight; but do not give up as the children survive better than we.:-)
You already love him, be patient but never accept unacceptable behavior it is unhealthy to all.

I wish you the best of luck and I wish peace

Ven

Posted 16 Years Ago


2 of 2 people found this review constructive.




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Wow, look at the little one. He is gorgeous with his sky blue eyes... This is such a sweet and endearing letter. When you mentioned how you had to show him who was boss and made me think of my Mom w/ my niece. She is only two. And my Mom will say: "Who's the boss?" And my niece will say: "Me." Because that's what she hears my Mom say. Well of you like family poems I think you will like my poem: Kayla. Until next time. Have writers chaos and instead of writers block. And Happy Holidays!

Posted 15 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

I am a parent who grew up with a belt tapping my behind when I got out of line. But i know so many people do not believe in this type of discpline. I do so there is no sleepless nights in my hose. Just kidding. I really enjoyed this Angel. As a grandmother and a fantastic writer you made everyone a little older watching your grandson run around. That takes skills to draw us un like that. I will be back for some more hot coffee. Get some rest.

Posted 15 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Very emotionally charged. Children mimic so closely what they see as strength. When mom's strength is taken just dealing with her own life, the child looks to the other for guidance. If meanness gets action then they learn to get attention the same way. Being the grandmother you must show him the laughter, the lightness the goodness that can be found and reward only his good behavior. remember that bad attention is still attention and at that age they will take whatever they can get. Hang in there. He's a cutie!

Posted 15 Years Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

an emotionally thoughful poem they are always the best, i love this poem and the emotion you have expressed throughout it........

BEST WISHES- ARABELLA

Posted 16 Years Ago


My heart goes out to you, when they become a certain age, the change begins, and not always for the better.
All you can do is love them, and pray for the best outcome.

A poignant and heartrendering piece, bittersweet to the extreme.

~sending a basket full of sunshine hugs your way~
love and blessings, Sandi

Posted 16 Years Ago


Well I guess the ear plugs and running shoes I sent you didn't work LOL
I raised two boys so I know what you are going through
Just think I had two one year apart so I was referee
I finally had enough and put them out in the yard and said if you want to kill each other go ahead
They didn't know what to think of this change in me
One time one was crying because he didn't get his own way
I said stop the crying or I will give you something to cry for
Then I gave him a dollar, the crying stopped he was in shock I think LOL
Wonderful write as always
This will change I promise, hopefully while you are still sane LOL
Ray

Posted 16 Years Ago


2 of 2 people found this review constructive.

Lesa,
My heart is with you. Like you once wrote to me...keep the pen to the paper...it helps.
With all my love,
Theresa Anne

Posted 16 Years Ago


2 of 2 people found this review constructive.

i could see how you would feel that way hun. I know the smile of my own child is like the sun and his laugh is music to my ears.
I just hope things get better soon. i won't call it a phase, but it just seems like he is trying to become his own person and he is being influenced by his surroundings.
Keep your chin up. Things will get better.

cole-

Posted 16 Years Ago


2 of 2 people found this review constructive.

I will try not interject opinion here; I am a parent of a four yr old, and have raised, as a step parent, two boys. Broken homes and genes carry great weight; but do not give up as the children survive better than we.:-)
You already love him, be patient but never accept unacceptable behavior it is unhealthy to all.

I wish you the best of luck and I wish peace

Ven

Posted 16 Years Ago


2 of 2 people found this review constructive.

A emotional write here and touching, well expressed.

Posted 16 Years Ago


2 of 2 people found this review constructive.


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