Life Factors and The Way The Mind Thinks

This book is only made up of my divine, individual observations of life factors.

Life, and The Mind

Chapter One: Goals

Life is treacherous and demolishing process that people usually fail to complete due to factors that destroy their beliefs and dreams. People fail to fall through with what that actually want, and this leads on to a life full of regret and depression because they are practically forced to do what they do.

People fail to realize the expression “do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life”. This expression is very optimistic, but true. People are unsatisfied as they wake till they go to bed. I’m not personally trying to make people feel as if they’re nothing, but if they aren’t being who they actually are, who are they? Nothing unfortunately. People fail to realize the circumstances that come from this.

Depression plays a big role in goals, regardless what they might be. You might want to lose weight, play an instrument, or anything else that someone might want to complete in their life. If you don’t complete these goals, usually you grow a form of depression that eats away at your self image and destroys your mind. It destroys your mind by mocking you over and over again. Its makes you regret the stupid option you chose. 

Regret is a terrible thing to have. Its sticks to your heart and mind. Permanently glued to them. It’s the thing that makes you want to give up because you wish that you could start over and try again. Believe in yourself I say. You don’t need to start over, even if they’re was a way you could. Life is full of experiences and tests. Takes these and learn, fortunately you will makes these your advantages. 

Don’t let these ridiculous factors ruin your life. I’m very optimistic to the fact that you can change. I believe in people to change but I don’t force them too. I put my faith into everyone but I won’t push you into doing it, because until you want to change, there’s nothing I can do to make you do it. Believe in yourself, believe in others, and trust yourself to complete anything. Goals are things people usually make to make an excuse in the end to say that they tried. Don’t be one of those people. I put my faith into you and everyone else that’s wanting a change. 

Goals are very hard, no matter what they might be. They always have disadvantages, but fortunately some have advantages. Goals make you ignite into strength and confidence unlike usual. Make people envy your happiness by making these changes and completing these goals. Make people realize what they’re missing out on. Make them realize its better to be who you are and not be frightened by other opinions and judgmental gossips from people that hate themselves and their own lives. 

Once you have completed these series of events to complete your goals I congratulate you. There’s nothing quite as well as the taste of success and happiness. Once you have completed one goal, move on to the next one. Be completely unaware of the difficulty of the challenge. Grow the confidence to complete every goal that you have ever set in your mind and life. For as you see, nothing is impossible at all. 

Chapter Two: Love

Though I might be at a young age. I still understand the emotion of love. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of love. It’s the emotion and addiction people crave their whole life. Its very sickening what people will do for this. It’s the one emotion people have when they feel at comfort and have trust with one person. Love is a tremendously delicate thing, but still people play with it as if it is a toy. 

Its disgusting what people will do for this. The one thing that burdens my mind is people lying for it. Referring to chapter one if you aren’t your self, who are you? People are always willing to change themselves for a significant other. The expression soul mate is made for a reason. They will accept you for you are. Regardless of you downfalls. If you ever have to change for another person its not realistic love, its what I call an imposter of it. To a certain degree change is alright. I don’t understand all the circumstances every relationship has but there are some cases that I would understand. For example one person in a relationship has a drug addiction problem. In the case it would be good for a couple to talk about help and changing this issue, this tends to make the trust and strength of a relationship to grow.

Love is something very unique and really rare to acquire. It might be easy to get a significant other, but how much difficulty is it to actually love the person? Love is an easy thing to say, considering people say it all the time, and then turn and make the word look as if it is a lie in the end. People focus to much on trying to find the right person. Love finds you on its on time. Not to be to negative about it, but you might have to wait a day, a week, a month, a year, or even a decade, but in the end don’t you think it would honestly be worth it? Instead of wasting your valued time, and consistently getting hurt over and over again. 

Another thing that makes me question love is when do people actually love you for you? Most people supposedly love someone for other particular reasons. It might be money, physical appearances, or any other ungodly reasons. Until you see inside of a person and see the particular things that make them who they are, you have nothing but a fraud of love. 

I say overcome all obstacles to this difficult this challenge. I’m  not asking nor telling you to break up with your partner, but to look inside and find the things that attract them to you. Be open to your love, not ashamed. Be confident in the things that you say. Everything is important in a relationship or people wouldn’t worry so much about their significant other that much. 

Love is a very delicate thing like I said before. Do not believe in what people say about your partner unless they have a stronger bond than you and your partner. People grow envy and depressed to the fact they don’t have the relationship you have. They want it so bad that they grow unsatisfied with their own lives and begin to destroy others. This is called misplacement of anger to me. They become aggravated so bad that they are a walking hell bound person trying to make things worse. 

Enjoy the bond you have and if you don’t have one be very optimistic because love is a walking thing. It waltzes in and out of your life everyday. Have the confidence to tell a  person what you think and feel about a person regardless of the opinions. Don’t worry about what others think, because they’ll hold you back more than anything. 

Chapter Three: Friendship

Friendship has a lot to say actually. Friendship is one of the true motivations in life to make us keep an open mind and do activities. It’s the one bond that makes people think that they have someone to lean on when they are in troubles. It can also be a negative thing, so don’t be early to judge that this chapter is just about good things. 

Friendship is a bond between two people. It has never been said that it can be a negative nor a positive thing. Friendship can be your downfall or your hill to glory. There’s an expression that I’ve personally made. “Keep a friend close but between divine lines realize what they might be about, because they can pave the way to trouble or help you out of it”.

I’ve had my personal moments with friends where I had to break the friendship off, but in most of the cases I’ve realized I was helping my self. Negative influencing friends are the one that will get you into trouble beyond imagination. These friends are manipulative, self conceited, and only worried about them selves. To you they might be your friend, but to them you’re nothing but a friend that’s willing to back them up whenever they want something or need help. Don’t be a fallback plan for people, stand strong for yourself. 

A good friend in my opinion is one that is there to nurture you through your problems, be willing to help you at any moment, and someone that worries about you. These friends are the ones that will push you passed all levels and help exceed your dreams and help eliminate the negative friends. These friends very rarely happen to come into our lives, so make sure you keep these friends. They will always be there and I promise this. 

Friends are very fragile these days. Make sure not do anything promising to hurt someone, because everything has the effect to tend to fall back upon yourself. Friendship is an immortal bond that never dies. Though you might die the friendship won’t. Pictures, memories, stories, music, and anything else will always live on. People will live on, thus passing on this collaborated information about you and a person. 

These people in your life, you have to watch. They can easily turn on you. That’s why I say keep your eyes wide open to the world because anything is possible to happen. Your best friend might betray you, but make sure to be strong, and endure this. In the end though, cut this friendship off because if someone knows they got away with it once, they test their luck and try again because they think of you as an easy target to do it to again. Show them that you have the courage to strengthen yourself and if they’re a true friend, make them prove it. Don’t take it lightly with people like this. Give second chances rarely though because some will hurt you continuously over and over again until you begin to get “fed up” with it. 

Friendship is one of the most expensive priceless things you’ll ever acquire in your life. Though it may seem like they’re not worth it sometimes, but they are. Even the negatives one are. They either make you realize that you don’t need to be around people like that, or you learn your lesson by them harming you in the end. They teach you many things. They teach you to question people, which is very essential because people are “fake”. They might be something one minute, and something else the next. As for the positive friends they teach you many things. Mostly random things, but they do teach you how to have fun, enjoy life, and so on. They teach you compassion from the heart by having feelings towards them. After spending time with a friend for such a long time you tend to grow emotions where you feel the same pain and love of a person. This is one of the most outstanding growing things that you can ever have. Though some may come to an end, the positive friends will be there to comfort you. 

Chapter Four: Hate

Hate is a common thing in this world. People tend to do it easily for some of the most pathetic reasons ever. Hate is the presence of dislike in a terrible matter where people wish harm onto others. This urge to harm unto people is terrible. Instead of wishing bad things happen to people, why not wish good things? 

Hate is the urge upon people when they have a terrible reaction  to someone else or something that has harmed them in a way. Its quite interesting how hate and love contradict so much but they are used about the same amount. When people hate they disregard other facts that happen. They look at one person so much that they fail to notice the other things that might be going on in their lives. They always like to blame one person for troubles. 

Instead of being enemies for reasons that can be ridiculous, be friends. Tomorrow is a second chance. There should never be worries the next day. Drop it, there is no point for on going non sense that is childish and immature. Life is filled with situations, but don’t let them destroy you. Overcome these and show that you are the “bigger man” by not playing into this nonsense.

The word hate is thrown around a lot, but how many people actually mean it? Yeah you can dislike something a lot, but how many is willing to see someone get intentionally hurt by their own wishes. Who is willing to take the risk to see someone get hurt I ask. Not many people apparently. People are frightened of the effects that could come back to haunt them. This is why I do not worry when someone says I hate you. They just clearly have a problem with what I’ve done. Eventually they will get over it.

I gladly welcome anyone to dislike me, but I do not wish for anyone to hate me. Love is a key, you must love everyone because you never know when you’ll need someone. Hate in some ones soul is because they either are insecure of them selves or have been hurt greatly. No one is willing to hate for no reason, unless you are manipulated in to hating someone for unbelievable reasons I don’t understand. 

Hate is a disgusting passion that manipulates the mind into believing that someone is willing to hurt you over and over again. It causes you to be over paranoid of people. Hate repels from the effect of being frightened most of the time. Thus causes little outbreaks of fights, arguments, and ways to get even in some form. I welcome you to realize that hate is the one that destroys yourself, but not only that you are harming others in the process.

Chapter 5: Happiness

The path to happiness is very complex. Happiness to me is the enjoyment of life including all the positives and negatives. Happiness is very hard to obtain in the this very depressing world of ours. It seems like everyone is watching our every move, and guess what; they are. Almost everyone likes to see someone else in pain or in a situation. It makes them get this very disgusting feeling that they’re better. News flash, they’re not. 

Do not be afraid to be yourself. To me this is the major factor to happiness. Happiness comes from within, not from other factors. Drugs and other things might make you smile, giggle, and get a little taste of happiness, but unfortunately it’s not the real thing. Its like substituting plastic for glass. Yeah you can see through plastic but is it as strong as glass? Glass may be fragile, but so is happiness.

Realize who you are. Open your eyes to your passions that flow within your body. Everyone has their own path to happiness. Everyone has a niche. Whether it be artistic, sports, or anything else. Do what you love, and do it with pride. Intimidation destroys happiness. People are insecure of what others may think. I’m telling you from personal experience, when you’re not being you, then what are you. You’re not yourself, so your nobody apparently.  

Happiness is such a wonderful thing. Not to brag, but I have sustained happiness within my life. If I can do it why can’t you? Just like you I’m a simple human being that has to deal with things I don’t exactly like, but like I said happiness come from enjoying life including the positives and negatives. 

Love plays a role in happiness I like to think. Though it may seem like without love in your life, you’re never going to be happy. The depressing thoughts like these will never cease the happiness that you crave every second. Love is a wondrous thing if you ask me, but is it necessary for happiness? No it is not. You don’t need someone to care and be there for you to be happy. You don’t need anything. Happiness comes to you from yourself, not from anyone else.

Happiness strikes when you can be yourself, without the wondering thoughts of what someone might think, or react to what you do. Happiness is one of the most important factors that play in life. Without it you may turned to other things that might bring you a small taste of happiness. These things are very addictive because you crave as if you have to have it or else you might end your life.

Happiness includes many things. It makes your life much simpler. It brings better thoughts, optimism, patience, and many other things that are essential in this complicated world of ours. Now ask your self what can I do to make my happiness sprout about and make my life better. Only you know, and only you may see the effects of it.

Author's Note

This is only chapter 1-5. Hopefully I will have more up gradually (:

Reviews

[James Masters]

What you said falls pretty close to home, and if I didn't know otherwise, I'd think you lived this long life, waiting to pass on wisdom to the next generation.
Your work has a great ability to inspire others to be more than they are, showing the world through clearer eyes, and such truths can only set you free. I share this skill and know to appreciate it in others, seeing as it is very hard to see the good in a person, no matter how they are or how the world works.
You may be young, but you're in the right place.

And don't worry about the small problems in grammar and spelling. Running through all of this, trying to share your view with precision and speed can spot some cracks. Focus will come through experience.

[TLK]

This piece is made harder to read by some obvious errors. "Life is treacherous and demolishing process" is missing an A ("a treacherous...").
"People fail to fall through" seems to be 'fail to follow through'.
with what that actually want, and this leads on to a life full of regret and depression because they are practically forced to do what they do."

Life is treacherous and demolishing process that people usually fail to complete due to factors that destroy their beliefs and dreams. People fail to fall through with what that actually want, and this leads on to a life full of regret and depression because they are practically forced to do what they do.
People fail to realize the expression “do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life”. This expression is very optimistic, but true. People are unsatisfied as they wake till they go to bed. I’m not personally trying to make people feel as if they’re nothing, but if they aren’t being who they actually are, who are they? Nothing unfortunately. People fail to realize the circumstances that come from this.
Depression plays a big role in goals, regardless what they might be. You might want to lose weight, play an instrument, or anything else that someone might want to complete in their life. If you don’t complete these goals, usually you grow a form of depression that eats away at your self image and destroys your mind. It destroys your mind by mocking you over and over again. Its makes you regret the stupid option you chose.
Regret is a terrible thing to have. Its sticks to your heart and mind. Permanently glued to them. It’s the thing that makes you want to give up because you wish that you could start over and try again. Believe in yourself I say. You don’t need to start over, even if they’re was a way you could. Life is full of experiences and tests. Takes these and learn, fortunately you will makes these your advantages.
Don’t let these ridiculous factors ruin your life. I’m very optimistic to the fact that you can change. I believe in people to change but I don’t force them too. I put my faith into everyone but I won’t push you into doing it, because until you want to change, there’s nothing I can do to make you do it. Believe in yourself, believe in others, and trust yourself to complete anything. Goals are things people usually make to make an excuse in the end to say that they tried. Don’t be one of those people. I put my faith into you and everyone else that’s wanting a change.
Goals are very hard, no matter what they might be. They always have disadvantages, but fortunately some have advantages. Goals make you ignite into strength and confidence unlike usual. Make people envy your happiness by making these changes and completing these goals. Make people realize what they’re missing out on. Make them realize its better to be who you are and not be frightened by other opinions and judgmental gossips from people that hate themselves and their own lives.
Once you have completed these series of events to complete your goals I congratulate you. There’s nothing quite as well as the taste of success and happiness. Once you have completed one goal, move on to the next one. Be completely unaware of the difficulty of the challenge. Grow the confidence to complete every goal that you have ever set in your mind and life. For as you see, nothing is impossible at all.