Ego!

EGO !!

Hello my dear comrades...

Hope we have gone far more mature via my writings.

Hehe...Just wanted to shower some praises at myself :P.

As an addict and as much of a wanderer I am, I have again

chosen a topic that is both controversial and generally

used as a negative term. Indeed I have heard people using

the term "Egoistic" as a derogatory term.

But we as the drivers of our own lives have chosen to put forth

a different perspective all the time. So let's have a got at it,

all again ;)

Just read the below C A R E F U L L Y!

"Having anything is good thing, If you know how to use it"

Else it is a waste; Be it a car, a mobile, a lappy, anger, love, desires,

efforts and of course ego!

BONZAIII! Now you hit the point. Or rather I got carried away too early.

Allow me to elaborate even further...

Everything has a darker side that includes everything we can see, feel or

perceive. And so does ego. It is that most of us can't control it and thus

contain it at the darker side. Hence, it is usually generalized as something

disparaging. 

The one they refer can be rather labelled as “negative ego.” 

It is our general reaction based on perception and judgments,

usually irrational, that creates a sense of separation between ourselves and others,

that labels people and things as “better than” or “worse than.”

In simpler terms, when we begin to delimit ourselves with concepts,

thoughts, rivalry etc, it hurts a part of us that makes it painful

to survive even a minor blow in life. Hence, we cling to the shield of 

this negative ego to boost our morale and belittle others to survive

just another day.

Well last I slackened my torso and introspected, I am still not the "Buddha"

and hence this part of me comes into play at times.

Negative ego is just a part of our thought process gone wrong and

has started to window out through our actions in real life. But the moment

we learn to control it, like any other thing, it becomes an ally.

Ego in more precise terms is the mirror of our inner self, that what

exactly is going inside us. The moment we stop it from shrouding our

thought process and start observing how it can affect our words

and actions. We then become the master of our own response.

This controlled ego can then become a driving force in our lives

which can then motivate us further and instill the passion to fuel

that impetus. Start focusing on facts and what you exactly want

and then use that ego to go over anything and anyone.

Consider your ego as a rogue, untrained, immature and scared child.

Treat it with love and compassion.

I won't go more descriptive. We are mature enough to understand.

Your ego should be rather "I can do it or I will reach the point

of success via my abilities". It should never be used to belittle

others in order to console your inner self. 

The same I have tried to convey through my upcoming book On A Drive With Life(Click Here)

--------> Time FoR A PuNcH LiNe<-------

The Ultimate aim of ego is not to see something...

But to Be something.....

Author's Note

The Ultimate aim of ego is not to see something...
But to Be something.....

Reviews

[AYVID N]

"Consider your ego as a rogue, untrained, immature and scared child.

Treat it with love and compassion."



You could be a master counsellor. You have that ability to convince. Ever thought about it?
just great to read!

[Ankit Kumar]

Hi DIvya...Ur comments always boosts my confidence. The fact is, that u might already be aware of. being a superb writer yourself. No writer can be true writer until he can stir the emotions of the reader. And for that he needs to have a counsellor's wit and knowledge. I try my best. Hope be as splendid as you are...Thanks dear :)

[AYVID N]

You are most welcome Ankit. Thanks for the insightful comments.

[Savannah Bly]

Perfect ending! Beautiful.

[Ankit Kumar]

Thanks a lot dear :)

[stars are far]

That was well writen..
sometime we must put our ego away..and do what we want..

[Ankit Kumar]

Always valued ur review...thanks again !

[stars are far]

my pleasure :)