"Understanding" Emotions of The Opposite Gender

"Understanding" Emotions of The Opposite Gender

A Story by Ankit Kumar
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Empathizing is the best cure for any falling relationship ;)

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"Understanding" Emotions of The Opposite Gender


I am quite sure that the word itself flushes your face with fervor. Obviously, your brains would be tuning your

heart with the emotions of today or past. But be well assured my friends, as usual my aim is to

help you sustain the beauty of everything that matters to you, and not to take you in flashbacks. 

Driver of their own lives, lend me some moments from your lives and believe me, by the time you have finished reading the passage, your perception would have changed!


To all the men, you might not know this. Ego, well that plays well with you. Complimented on smiles, ethics, style etc etc etc boosts the feeling and it keeps him going smooth. The feeling to get respected,

admired and wanted is what glues him to any relationship. Advise to women: Don't cater your self-respect, but a perfect balance between love and admiration works wonders!


Well it may sound odd to many, but women don't want attention(Except the initial

phase though ;) )...Rather they want the appreciation in every small things

they put in a relationship.


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Just clear down your brain lanes and know this: Psychologically, women

accentuates on every small and good things in their relationships.

Like a letter in a box, a chocolate given unexpectedly,care and the list

may go on. But again, as they say, the good may be worst when implemented

on the darker side. They will count even small and most infinitesimal of your

mistakes. This may include behaving in a manner she doesn't expect you

to be. Not appreciating on something she would have expected you to be.


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Well men, let the grin on your face not widen much because your jaws may drop

open. Men may ignore small things and instead of counting them as a whole,

an incident that may impact him can provoke him behave in a catastrophic manner.

He may count on your bigger mistakes, which obviously includes not letting him

feel admired. Jealousy may also count into this. Similarly, a larger

good done to him that may boost him up, is sonorous in his mind throughout.


Friends, I know these are just the basics, or may be I am wrong!

But hope if empathized correctly, it can do wonders ;)


------->>>>>TiMe FoR ThE PuNcH LiNe<<<<<-------

If You consider someone your whole life, then improve

your life first!


© 2014 Ankit Kumar


Author's Note

Ankit Kumar
Friends, I know these are just the basics, or may be I am wrong!
But hope if empathized correctly, it can do wonders ;)

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This was definitely a very thoughtful write. I can tell you as a girl that some observations do describe many girls although definitely not all. (= All the same, I applaud your attempts to understand

Posted 10 Years Ago


Ankit Kumar

10 Years Ago

I tried my best to be more precise and descriptive...hope to do better next time :)
Appreciate your effort. In my opinion a woman is a universe it is not job of a man to understand why she is the way she is but appreciate her for what she is and if you can't you better run for your life :)

Posted 10 Years Ago


Ankit Kumar

10 Years Ago

Well the fact is that people don't even understand themselves...The best we can do as i mentioned in.. read more
You shook me out of a reverie. Rushing back to undo all the mistakes I made in my committed relationship. This write is much appreciated for the insight it provides and the contribution it made to my thinking. Your language is also very persuasive and convincing.

Thanks Ankit, you are a great thinker and writer.

Posted 10 Years Ago


Ankit Kumar

10 Years Ago

Well,, not as good as u of course...thanks for appreciating me ....it is indeed a booster!

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Added on March 24, 2014
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Ankit Kumar
Ankit Kumar

Pune, Maharashtra, India



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I was born on 8th April 1990, Patna, Bihar in India, in a middle class family of four. Anil Sinha, Sr. manager in The Times of India and Sudha Sinha, a housewife, raised me with proper care. I did 10t.. more..

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