you didn't know how to take it my non-reaction to your non-confession. did I stutter ? no, because I already knew. I felt it, the weight was heavy in your breath. it's okay, baby. I understand. I am not the only girl you are not the only man. but maybe together against this lonely world we can stand.
not sure I understand your voice her KL... I guess it depends on what is meant by exclusively... it is often true that we fall in and out of love (as in a relationship/marriage/commitment/etc) and if honest and say so and move on that is one thing, but I guess I do not think that what is known as an "open relationship", that is where you each see and make love with others while you are together with one is not really equal or mutually supportive and beneficial in my opinion.... and especially in a male dominated world it is most of the time women who are damaged and badly hurt...
having said all this, I most likely have once more put my foot in my mouth... maybe next time I will bbq it first...
redzone
Posted 8 Years Ago
8 Years Ago
Well, personally, I don't have a problem with open relationships, however, that is not what this poe.. read moreWell, personally, I don't have a problem with open relationships, however, that is not what this poem is about, really, but about the fact that each has a history with others, and that is ok -- there is room for more than one love in this life.
8 Years Ago
aaah.. okay, understood... yes agree (we do have history and there can only be one first love)... so.. read moreaaah.. okay, understood... yes agree (we do have history and there can only be one first love)... sorry I misread... you do know my head isn't always screwed on too tight right..
i think we do love several and sometimes many loves in our life.. I have had 6 serious loves in my life (2 of those marriages) none of them were at the same time however...
Not a problem. My poor farmboy worries too much -- and has some notions passed on to him that are ha.. read moreNot a problem. My poor farmboy worries too much -- and has some notions passed on to him that are hard to shed. It's ok, they are old-fashioned, romantic notions, that I don't sweat over. I can't -- I am divorced twice, and have had at least 4 other serious relationships (seems like our numbers are the same, but who is counting?) -- if I thought there was only one I would be in some serious trouble :)
8 Years Ago
yeah me too a long time ago... lol... he's worried about your relationships or his??? it definitely .. read moreyeah me too a long time ago... lol... he's worried about your relationships or his??? it definitely hard to love again but we do and sometimes it is even better because we have learned and know more how to love and what we want and need... that you love him should be something he cherishes and loves you for as well as loves you for who you are and have become...
by the way, hows that hand/wrist healing?? are you back to work...
8 Years Ago
Well, it's more like he has preconceived notions about how things should be ... It's ok, I get it --.. read moreWell, it's more like he has preconceived notions about how things should be ... It's ok, I get it -- his experiences are vastly different from mine. The hand is coming. Almost better pain wise -- now it is off to therapy so I can do most things I could before ...
as long as we both know we are not exclusive...maybe that elusive love can find us...and in the end, we can stand together...
i love the non-reactions.....they say more than reactions usually do.
Posted 8 Years Ago
8 Years Ago
There is no such thing as complete exclusivity, I believe, at least when it comes to our hearts and .. read moreThere is no such thing as complete exclusivity, I believe, at least when it comes to our hearts and minds -- there is always a someone who was or could be -- it's what we choose to do with that that matters -- can we look another in the eye and feel no guilt because each knows the other's heart? That's what counts.:) Thank you for reading and reviewing.:)
Yeah, something is boogered at the moment. I am having trouble accessing certain things -- I don't k.. read moreYeah, something is boogered at the moment. I am having trouble accessing certain things -- I don't know why. I have virus scanned my machine to death, it's only on this site the crazy stuff happens.
I write under a pseudonym.
I don't do Read Requests, but you can PM me if you want me to read something specific. I make friends with people who I read and interact with. I won't accept random reque.. more..
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