"It's complicated"

by way of explanation, but probably not

If I say it,
it might
make it
real

I might have to
do something,
and live up to
what I feel.

as long as it's
just you and
me and a
dreamy fantasy,

as long as you're
my friend,
I can pretend
it won't ever end ...

Author's Note

Reviews

[aLittlePain]

I kinda think the best kind of love comes from our friends you know it ticks all the boxes. So I think we can easily go there into those deeper feelings. I get it though the risk is great. Superb! R xo

[Lyn Anderson]

In this case, it was best to leave it where it was. :)

[Lydia Shutter]

Some things are better left unsaid and also kept away from the prying eyes and words of those who truly have nothing to do with your relationship. Good one. Lydi**

[Lyn Anderson]

Thank you so much.

[Papaya]

It's easy to fall in love with a friend but never admit it because you worry it might not be returned or might kill the friendship. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But the never knowing truly sucks.

[Lyn Anderson]

Thanks for popping in on this one.

[Papaya]

My pleasure.

[David Scott]

Hmmm?
I guess I never thought of things like this.
Kind of like living in fear of reality...
I guess I kinda understand but because I don't go here, I know I don't really get it.

Great capture of a common theme in the cyber world.

[Lyn Anderson]

In life, there are no simple answers sometimes. Just more questions.:)

[David Scott]

Indeed KL. Indeed!

[Madalyn Beck]

Sometimes we try to hide from the truth that is our reality, if only for a little while. This is short and sweet, but gives way to those fearful emotions of confronting that truth. Great write, KL! xo :)

[Lyn Anderson]

Thanks so much. I appreciate your visits. I know I write a lot.:)

[jacob erin-cilberto]

i feel that lovers have to be best friends....those in a relationship...if that is not there, where do they go? to someone else?

sharing is everything.

[Lyn Anderson]

Thank you for your words and thoughts. I feel blessed to know so many kind people and talented poets such as yourself.

[redzone]

aaawww wouldn't let me hear the music... ;0(

KL, do you believe that the one you want to be with, share whatever you can with, hold hands with, should be your "friend"?? best friend even... I like how you express the fear of "as long as you're
my friend,
I can pretend
it won't ever end ..." and that's the crux isn't it, that it won't last, and that it will mean mucho pain... and loss of a friend... sometimes I think being a friend is harder than being a lover/partner... friends are special and many go through life without feeling this deeply about someone... I personally don't believe that love can last without real friendship, the kind where there are no secrets and there is the openness of sharing thoughts and goals, where there is mutual respect and even where disagreements strengthen the bonds and not tear them apart... maybe that is just being silly, too old to be nieve.. HA..

anyway, pay me no nevermind KL, these are just some thoughts as I read your poem...and hell yes, it's complicated!!! even saying nothing is complicated... and as far as explanations go, it's a good one... and thanks..
~~redzone

[Lyn Anderson]

Hey, man, I love your thoughts. There are so many things inside the inside of things, you know?

[Lyn Anderson]

And look up the song, Weightless, by See Spot Run. It is a wonderful song.

[redzone]

I will look up song hmmm inside of inside of things .. there's a poem hiding in these words ..lol

[Benita-Staebell M - Kin..]

Very Beautifully penned Relationship can be
like trying to climb a mountain to Jump
the Curve balls of life.


the song went hand in hand with
this poem and thank you for your
kind review and comments you left
on my page and this wonderful piece.


Blessings. Benita/ kindred poet

[Lyn Anderson]

You are welcome. And I appreciate your review. Take care and be strong. If you get a chance, read my story, Confessions of Endurance. The chapters are short.:)

[Benita-Staebell M - KindredPoet]

You're welcome. I will check them out thank you :) Blessings. Benita/ kindred poet

[The Rock And Roll Cowbo..]

What relationship isn't complicated… I have the hardest time still being friends with ex lovers, it feels wrong going backwards in the relationship, on the other hand when you care so much it is hard to walk away from them.

[Lyn Anderson]

Yes, you are right, no relationship is uncomplicated.

[InsanityWriter]

Nice poem. I love that you said so much, even in only a few stanzas. Excellent piece. :)

[Lyn Anderson]

Thank you very much for popping in.